Am I possibly Bisexual?

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I'm 14 years old. I used to have a friend that I'd call 'Boo-Bear' and we used to tell eachother everything. I ended up kissing her one day, and I don't really know how I felt about it but I did it again. Then things started getting heated and let's just say that she may have touched me in certain areas. I deffinately liked the touching sensation, but I don't really know if I liked it much because she was a girl. I think that if it would've been a guy, I would've enjoyed it a little more. 

I also sometimes find myself flirting with some good looking girls. I always am checking out both guys and girls. So I am confused. I'd just like some advice.

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Riddle me this, if you date 7 guys, for longer than 5 months, than date a girl for longer than 5 months, than continue dating guys, were you ever 'gay'? No. You liked a girl, because you developed feelings for them the way you would a guy. What differentiates these two people, let's give them names. Mark, and Karen. You liked Mark for a while, Mark made you laugh, Mark flirted with you, Mark was cute, had your favorite colored eyes. You and Mark date and what not, then something happens and y'all break up. Now Karen; Same scenario. She's cute, makes you laugh, etc. But, oh no, she has the same parts as you. That'd never work. But if she was a guy, oh yea. 
Why? Why are we, as a society, offended by our own anatomy? 
Anyway, research the different types of sexuality's. Though it's stupid to have to be labeled, find which ever fits you and you're comfortable with. 
You may want to look up 'Pansexuality.' This is where you like someone regardless of their gender or what the identify by. Remember, the difference between being a lesbian, and be pan, is Lesbian's tend to like women, where Pan you don't gratifyingly prefer anything.
You CAN be bi, and have a preference.
You CAN be pan, and have a preference.

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To like the same sex, which is to be Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Pansexual...all of it. You have to seriously think... do you want to BE that person, or do you want to be WITH that person and experience the things like kissing and sexual things.  ALLLLLLLLLL girls check out other girls, and they are lying if they say they don't. So it may just be you saying "ooooooh that girl is hot" because you like the way she looks. But you don't have to worry about that. Just have fun. Don't worry about the lables and details right now.

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You may feel confused for quite a while! But that's alright, and you definitely shouldn't feel there's something wrong with you! 

To be bi-sexual you have to have SEXUAL feelings for both boys and girls. And you seem to not like it with girls or your unsure.

You may need some time to figure it out, but I wouldn't worry. Just remember to be gay or straight you need sexual feelings too. You might just think some girls are nice or attractive but that doesn't make you gay, what makes you gay is the sexual feelings you have for them..

Hope this helps!x :)

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