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Hello. I am in seventh grade and a girl (obviously, I suppose). This year I finally began to see the 'dating world' in which I have been asked out (despite a time in third grade--I did NOT say yes, btw) and people have confessed crushes to me, and stupidly I didn't see who it was that said they liked me. So a few months ago I was in my social studies and one of the semi-popular/cool kids/funny person everyone thinks is cute walked up to me and asked if i could help him with this map or something(i forgot). Now let me tell you where I stand in the social order, I am a 'smart nerd', I suppose. Not pretty, not cool, and never have been. The only thing I have to boast about is my intelligence, classes, and piano talent(though I don't really care for music much but apparently I'm very good at playing the piano,). So of course I said "Sure, what do you need help with?" so I helped him and then the teacher placed us in a group since I was helping him get his grade up and he began working with me on every group assignment assigned. One day he told me "_(my name)_, You're good for my life." and I was just like, okay then . . . So one day I was working with him and he went to talk to these other popular friends and a girl whom is very nerdy(even more than I since she is not smart) asked me for help and so I helped her and he came back and started like being 'mad' or 'freaking out' in a funny way and said "_(her name)_, Why did you steal my spot? I was sitting next to _(my name)_ first." and then more rants and he left and oh my gosh =.= even the teacher turned around.

So after that incident I sort of noticed that I like him ^.^ and so afterwards, also, he never really spoke to me much and I tried to ignore him too since well i started liking him. Around two weeks ago, though, he like stroked my arm and was like "pretty woman . . " and so I just side stepped away from him and did like a 'You have creeped me out' face. Today, and this made me giddy, he said "_(my name)_, I love you" and I was like okay then . . and well that was strange. So do you think he might like me? Sometimes in other classes I see him glancing and we lock eye contact for about a second or two and then look away. Is it me, or both of us??

Thanks :). I hope he does not read this because he'd know right away it's me. And SO sorry for such a lengthy letter. Adio'!

Update:

Can you guys vote for your favorite? Thanks.

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  • Vetty
    Lv 5
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Listen darling. I get that the need to be 'needed' is great with each and every person on the plant. But this guy is practicing how to flirt. Apparently he finds you attractive or he wouldn't be acting like a ya-ya around you. Does he like you? I think he likes you, but I don't think in a romantic way. He's joking around, and having fun. Once guys start that crap about 'i love you' that's a red flag to me. That means if you can say that so easily to me, and you don't hardly know me, than you would say that to any one.

    So, what to do? Just hang w/ him in your group. Do what you do and be happy. If he DESERVES you, than he will do what it takes to be with The Wonderful You. Doesn't matter if he's the cool kid and your the smart nerd. If he's not worthy of you, it won't matter.

    Have fun with it. Flirt back. Just don't take it so seriously.

    Good Luck.

    Let us know how it goes

  • 8 years ago

    I'm guessing by your grade that you're around 12 or 13. At that age.... people have interesting ways to show that they like someone. I'd say yes, he seems like he has an interest but is trying to play it down so as not to make it obvious.

  • 8 years ago

    awee you should get to kow him a little better. make sure you know his personality. if you think you guys could work out then dont act aquard around him. if he said he loves you try to smile when you see him and make it pretty obvious you like him. he will jump in and ask you out. hope you guys get together, you would sound like a really cut couple.

    haha can you answer my question.

    Thank youu <3

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    he may like you. or his friends dared him. or mabey he was bored. grade 7 is too young 4 dating anyways

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  • 8 years ago

    It sounds like he definitely does.the whole stroking arm thing and glancing at each other. Girls do that to me when they like me.

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