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Lv 4

Ok so how do I have sex?

Well my 18th birthday is in 2 months and I'm still a virgin, this is kind of getting ridiculous to a point I don't even understand. I thought this would of happened by now but nope.. I had my chances back when I was younger and not ready and skipped thoses, now that I'm ready I don't have any chances anymore which totally sucks. I've dated a bunch of girls, either I ended up disliking them for some reason, or they ended it. So it never came down to having sex, I need to have sex, this may sound corny and perverted but what a guy have to do to have sex with you? Any advice

Update:

No I will not get a hooker lol

I don't come off strong, infact I've been told im a "sweet talker" so to speak lol... , just don't know the steps from turning someone on to sex.

Update 2:

I'm not waiting until marriage, sorry future wifey :/

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago
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    I first had sex when I was 23 and only b/c of peer pressure, no other reason. I could have waited for many more years. I was pressed to find a man and lose my virginity to him so I could be "normal" and fit in with the rest. I regret it now b/c he was not somebody I was really physically attracted to and I had to convince myself (lie to myself basically) that I was in love with him, which I wasn't.

    Don't hurry up. You can always masturbate.

  • 8 years ago

    Sex isn't something you plan. It just happens when the timing is right and with the one you love. Believe me when I say you will forever regret giving it up to someone who doesn't care about the purity and beauty of your deflowering specially if it is you're first time because you will remember it for the rest of your life. It's a chapter in your life you'd like to remember quite nicely don't you think? Rather than cringe in disgust and regretting it everytime you remember. Be you a girl or a guy, it applies to everyone.

    But if you really just "want" sex then go get a hooker. Who am I to judge you.

  • 8 years ago

    Maybe if you wouldnt think about sex so often, it would happen sooner for you. Some girls dont like it when guys come on too strong. Turn those hormones down a little and act like a gentleman.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    dude your 17 almost 18 what 17 year old teenage dude does not WANT sex. Your time will come. Matter of fact your time will come and then it will be gone in less then a few pumps bro. Just chill and wait for it.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    First off my best advice is to not chase the girls, to be honest now-a-days it's hard to find a guy who is a virgin, when you lose your virginity you want that moment to be special, I myself is a virgin and I'm 21 but after educating myself I've realized that its really not a big deal it's best to wait, I used to feel anxious but i finally got over it and decided to wait.

    My best advice for you is not rush it, go fall in love with someone who's really worth it. When you get married it should be a gift to your wife don't throw it away.

  • 8 years ago

    Literally just talk to a couple girls, invest some time in getting to know them a little and try to start initiate sexual relations, like hint at stuff. Girls love charisma and confidence so do that **** as well. Or just attend parties til you get lucky

    Last resort: Go to your nearest town square, whip it out and just bellow out 'SOMEONE **** ME". you'd be surprised of those results

    Source(s): Experience
  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    1.When we know when a guy genuinely cares for us.

    This wont work on girls that are saving it for marriage.

    But thats what works in a nutshell, how you express it is up to you. And most girls can tell when you are just trying to get in thier pants. Its calling intuition.

  • 4 years ago

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  • ----
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    What's the rush? There's nothing wrong with waiting until marriage unless you want stds.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Stick 'em with the pointy end.

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