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I'm really freaked out for tomorrow,my girlfriends dad wants to have a "talk with me"?
So today(well its after midnight here so technically yesterday) I walked my girlfriend abbey home from school like I always do,but today it started raining really hard in the way there so she let me inside(which she's technically not aloud to do if her mom and dad are still at work) since i would have to walk 2 miles back to my house If she didn't,so I changed into my gym clothes so I wouldn't be soaking wet while I waited for t to stop raining,while we waiting we went upstairs to watching some tv in her room...you can tell this is about to get bad cant ya? Anyways we were sitting on her bed watching tv and then she started to rest her head in my shoulder so I warped my arm around her,then after alittle while we ended up making out in her bed, and then this is weird I'm assuming her dads gonna shoot me with a rocket launcher for,so while we were making out on the bed abbey started to take off her shirt and I'm pretty sure she was about to take off her bra but that's when my luck sorta kicked in...wanna guess who came home from work early? Needless to say he wasn't "happy" with the fact his daughter and her boyfriend are in her room alone without her shirt on,he seemed calm but I'm pretty sure he was picturing hitting me with a bus in his head,I mean me and abbey have been dating for along Time now so atleast it's not like this all happened after a feel months right? Still doesn't make it better does it,anyways he told abbey to put her shirt on and walk me downstairs to get my wet clothes and then i walked home,still raining but I wasn't about to ask for a ride,then when I got home at around four i got a text from abbeys phone but it was her dad and it said
"This is abbeys father,can you come by tomorrow around 11,abbey and her mom will be out and I'd like to have a talk with you about what happened in her room,also I'm taking abbeys phone away so please don't try to call her to discuss this her"
Oh man I'm so nervous,how mad do you think he is?I'm screwed arent I?
13 Answers
- 5 years ago
It is not fair for you to drag your long distance girlfriend along. It would be best for you and her in the long run to be honest with her. You can let her down easy by telling her these words "I love you, but I can't keep up this long distance relationship. It's hard on me not to see you everyday, and I think it would be good for us to date other people." It will hurt her at first, any loss does. But, you have to stay strong, let her cry (because she will) and say what she has to say, but then let her go. In the next few weeks let her know that it is ok to call you once in a while if she needs someone to talk to, but that you also need your space to think about things. Wait until you are settled and comfortable with being just friends with your "ex" long distance girlfriend before you try anything new with anyone else. Good luck and I hope you take the honest route, even if it is not the easiest. (Besides whatever is meant to be will happen)
- ?Lv 78 years ago
If he was going to kill you it would have happened when he found you two on the bed with her shirt off. I'd say he's definitely upset and I bet you two won't be allowed to see each other for awhile. I wish you'd said how old you are because to me, the punishment would depend a LOT on whether you guys are 13, 15 or 17 yrs old.
You should be prepared with a sincere apology. No excuses about the rain, I'm sure he's already heard that from his daughter. Tell him you're sorry you came in when you knew it wasn't allowed and that you really, really shouldn't have ever gone up to her bedroom. Tell him that you respect him and will accept whatever punishment he decides is appropriate.
Other than that just listen to what he says. Look like you're sorry, don't disagree, don't make excuses. Use your manner, call him Sir, say Thank you Sir, I'm sorry Sir, Thank you for not beating me senseless Sir.
- hornchurchmaleLv 78 years ago
assuming she is old enough to have sexual relations it isn't such a big deal. he is hardly going to start thumping daylights out of you.
more like wants to advise no sexual relations in his house ( respect for them ) and not getting her pregnant etc.
may also try and determine your intentions towards her eg long term, fling?
be of good cheer. he hasn't said never come near her again ..yet.
worse case .. he will try and ban you form seeing her again.
best case strong words of advise..eg thrown over a cliff if mistreating her etc.
so middle ground is likely result.
be honest tell what happened .apologise. explain it was never planned. tell him you really care for her and banning each other from contact will drive a wedge between parents and daughter plus unlikley to work unless he can keep tabs on her rest of her life.
be upfront. polite and honest. he may resent his daughter about tp explore her sexuality but it is only a matter of time and better with somebody he know than somebody he knows not a fig about.
- Anonymous8 years ago
He is going to murder you! Just kidding. All he want to do is hear your story to confirm what she has told him. So here is where it gets tricky. She has told him something and now you have to match what she said. She is already in trouble and what you say will depend on how much more trouble she will be in. I sure hope she was at the age of consent or you could be facing statutory rape charges...... Good luck bro!
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- 8 years ago
You'll be fine, just tell him the truth about what happened and don't stutter or make any mistakes in your speech, he'll think you're lying, you have to do his right because he will ( maybe ) think you're lying if you can't get your story straight. But everything should be fine, don't try to blame it on your girl either saying she came onto you, then he'll just think you're talking bad about her. Good luck!
Source(s): I'm just thinking of what I would do in that situation. - 8 years ago
Don't worry dude...he's not gonna kill you (I hope)... He just might want to REALLY talk with you. Just tell him the truth about what happened and maybe it might go well. Stay calm and don't worry, judging by the way Abbey's father acted seeing you two, he will just give you a firm talking to.
I wish you luck :D
- Anonymous8 years ago
Chill out, dude- her old man probably just wants to give you a stern lecture and a big box of condoms! Yay!
- Anonymous8 years ago
You're so screwed. Either he might want to shoot you with a rocket launcher, or maybe he just wants to talk. If he just wants to talk you can bet it will be embarrassing and mortifying. Maybe he wants to talk about protection...or maybe he wants to talk about hitting you with a bus. Prepare for the worst.
- ?Lv 48 years ago
He's not going to kill you. He's going to explain to you that his daughter means the world to him and that you weren't respecting and protecting her by your actions. If you are old enough to try to have sex with his daughter, you need to be man enough to face him. You'll understand someday when you have kids...which will be pretty soon if you aren't careful.
- ?Lv 58 years ago
He's just jealous. I kid.
Anyways I think you should just explain what happened. Just read what you wrote on Yahoo Answers. If Abby won't be home I doubt he's gonna try to get you to break up I think he just wants an explanation.