i have a problem... and i'm 18 years old...?

a real man knows how to control his urges.besides if he does this everytime then obviously he is more physically attracted to you than emotionally.do you want that kind if a relationship where there is no emotional attachment?! because if he were emotionally attached to you,he would respect your feelings!!!!!!!

If he truly loves you and cares about your feelings, then it won't break his heart that you're not ready yet. When my husband and I were dating he let me choose the pace. He never forced himself on me, and he let me tell him when I was ready. I'm so grateful for that.

If your boyfriend loves you he will do the same for you. It's not worth compromising how you feel to make him feel better. It's not right to do something you don't want to do because he does. How is that fair to you?

Talk with him about it. Tell him you love him, that you're attracted to him, and you want to be with him, but you're not ready to take the plunge into sex yet. Just ask him to be patient and give you time, and when you're ready, you'll let him know.

Well for one wear protection to lower the chances of anything crazy happening afterwards, tell him how you feel. If he is a worthy bf he will understand. I waited 8 months with my highschool sweetheart till she told me she was ready.

just say no.say him only after married. if they really love you then he will understand. and if not then

listen carefully babe you are in the bad company.

that's is secrets of boys and i tell because i am also afraid about you life.

if your not ready to do it, then dont do it. your bf should respect your feelings. tell him that you dont feel right about it now.

if your guy really likes you, he will understand your situation. by telling him the truth, you can also find out how he really feels about you and how he respects your feelings.

Tell him you will give sex after marriage . If he loves you he will wait otherwise he will move.

try to explain your situation and reasoning. he should understand. dont cave and do anything you dont feel comfortable with. how long have you two been going out? that also plays a little factor. please help with mine? :)

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don't be afraid. think that some day you have to do it.

if u also interest in it then do it ........

but with all safety

don't do that, you will regret later.