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POLL: Would you consider this guy a perv?
A 22/23 year old guy who is into 18/19 year old girls, is that creepy?
14 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
My father certainly was no "perv" and he married my mom when he was 28 and she 18!
My advice to you is to not get caught up in the flawed thinking of having calendar years dictate a range for your mate/date. The important criteria is a shared emotional maturity.
For example: I bet you've met both male and female who at an early age...say 16 - 18 for example...who acted, spoke, and emoted as you would expect someone 22 or older to behave. Conversely, I'll also wager you've met adults who behaved like kids.
So compatibility is found first in age of maturity, and continues based on likes, dislikes, tastes, etc, plus some instinctual and subconscious factors.
But to answer your question in the shortest fashion: NO! THAT IS NOT CREEPY!
P.S. Be careful with that word "perv". Do you even know what it means? It's a strong word and should not be thrown around casually. It means "...refer(s) to a variety of forms of deviation, it is most often used to describe sexual behaviors that are considered particularly abnormal, repulsive or obsessive." _Wikipedia
- 8 years ago
Nah that's totally fine. I met a guy over the weekend who was 22. I'm 19. No big deal really. Plus girls are 2 years ahead of guys in maturity anyway.
- 8 years ago
If he's into them exclusively (like ONLY wants 18/19 year olds) then it sounds like a fetish where he's just getting off on the idea of ******* a teenager. It's weird and can snowball into wanting even younger girls imo. But if he's into them as well as other people that's completely normal
t'downers are offended pervs
- dimplegirl475Lv 48 years ago
No, the girls are legal. If he were into 14/15 year old girls then yes, he would be a pervert
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- ?Lv 68 years ago
I don't think so. He's only about four years older. I've read somewhere about a 51 year old man marrying a 16 year old girl, so it isnt that bad.
- 5 years ago
D, C, A, E, G, B, F i do not like them too significant or too small good let's be sincere here, i wouldn't say no to anything between mosquito bites and watermelons, however I choose something in between.
- Anonymous8 years ago
all guys are pervy creeps
- Anonymous8 years ago
No. They're legal.
- Anonymous8 years ago
No