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Why dont boys talk to me?
So I am a freshman in high school and so many people always tell me that im gorgeous,so pretty, and cute. My friends, my family, teachers, and girls in school that I dont even know. But no boys ever talk to me or notice me. I am very shy also. I just dont understand how so many people can tell me that im pretty but no boys notice me. Why is that?
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
They could be afriad to talk to you,and you might have to be the one to say hi.I dont know why but i have lots of guy friends and they say they would rather the girl come up and say hi first. Try to not be as shy either im really shy to but they all come around. (: good luck
Source(s): Tons of guy BFFSS ;DD jk - 5 years ago
In my expertise, guys don't speak except they received whatever main or principal to say. Speaking an excessive amount of is visible as demanding or being too in contact with your emotions. Nonetheless being silent is not a bad factor. Humanist Rachel Naomi Remen put it this manner: "the most normal and powerful manner to connect with another man or woman is to listen. Simply hear. Might be the fundamental thing we ever give every different is our attention…. A loving silence most often has a long way extra vigor to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned phrases."
- Anonymous8 years ago
Oh they have noticed you!!! Believe me!!!
The thing is, the prettier the girl is then the harder it is for a lad to talk her, we think, oh she's probably used to getting hit on by more popular or better looking guys so what chance am I gonna have...
Then there's rejection on top of that...
Think about a lad you like that's really good looking... ... Would you just go up to him and talk to him? What would you say? Are you gonna look stupid? Is it gonna look obvious? Do I have any reason to talk him?
Works the exact same way for guys...
So its kinda safer and easier to talk to an average looking girl cos there's less chance of being rejected or making a complete show of yourself...
My advice, try talking to a few lads and see their reaction, if its mostly nervous reactions then you have the answer!!!
So dress rougher, don't do your hair, rub dirt on yourself looooool only joking!!!
Seriously its just confidence issues with lads that's all :)
There's a girl I like, she's flawless, I'm a few years older than her but I'm petrified of talking to her hahahahaha my own confidence problems... But I see everyone checking her out but no one talking to her...
So be a bit more observant and see if your getting checked out :)
Source(s): That's why they call it ex...perience - Anonymous8 years ago
They are probably scared since you're so drop-dead gorgeous xD See if you can strike up a conversation with a guy you like, and maybe arrange a group event with some girlfriends and their boyfriends/ guy friends. Then you can get to know each other better :D You'll have to jump out of your comfort zone, but it'll be fun :)
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- Anonymous8 years ago
A lot of guys would rather not make the first move. Maybe that's the situation with every boy there. I mean honestly there were plenty of girls I never even spoke to because I didn't want to make the first move.
Source(s): Me and other guys - 8 years ago
Because they are afraid to because they might also be shy you are only a freshman so don't worry about it. You could always go up to them if you want.
- 8 years ago
Oh, they notice you. They're just equally shy. If a boy catches your eye, I suggest just going up and striking up a conversation with him.
Source(s): Several years of staring at pretty girls in school but being too nervous to say something. - Michael SLv 48 years ago
The problem with being really pretty is that guys think you already have someone so they don't even try.
Source(s): have any pics, would love to see? - 8 years ago
They probably don't know how to approach you since you're shy. Don't take offense to it though, just be yourself and someone will hopefully be confident enough to approach you.
- 8 years ago
probably intimidated..... you should try talking to them instead of waiting for them to talk to you...thats is what the problem i had with girls, i waited for them to talk to me and i didnt get a gf that way so i started to talk to them....