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Friend says he doesn't like me like that but his actions say otherwise?

I have this guy friend whom I have slept with, he knows I like him and I like him a lot. He says he can't date me because of how he is and he says he doesn't like me not like that anyways, but all of his actions say otherwise. For instance, we got into a fight where he actually left my place and said that he is never coming back. A little less than an hour after he started talking to me again, and even apologized for his actions and behaviour. He asked me to meet up with him at a 7-Eleven, so we met up he hugged me tight and apologized to me, then he grabbed my chin and kissed me, in public with people watching. He has kissed me before out of nowhere when I've been upset, but he has never kissed me with people watching, so I'm a little confused, is he hiding his real feelings or is he simply being a guy.

Update:

when he says he can't date me because of how he is, is because he tends to be a player and play a lot of girls, at one time. I slept with him as a rebound because my boyfriend passed away, then I continued to sleep with because he made me feel good, we became close friends, then of course the feelings started to develop, I'm 20 years old, and just confused, because he always does things like that kiss, but when we are alone, and things I say to him even as a joke bothers him a great deal.

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  • 8 years ago

    In my view, he is being a guy. Your mistake was in sleeping with him without some sort of a committed

    relationship. He can't date you because of how he is, he said. What in the world does that mean? Has he

    discovered he's gay? He has very little sense of time and place, that's for sure. I think you should

    write him off as a both a friend and prospective bf. And next time, listen to the Millionaire Matchmaker:

    No sex without monogamy.

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