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My friend has a problem and I need your help!!!!?
My friend likes another one of my friends but, I don't think they'd make a cute couple. He is real popular and she's not really cool at all. He has high standards and may/may not be a Cheater. They're friends and I think it would be awkward for every one. She can't stop obsessing over him and I feel bad for her. I know he's a real flirt a heartbreaker. She is in love, I guess. I get her, but it's basically a forbidden love.
I really need to help her because she asked for my help and if I don't help her I feel like ill let her down. I really think that I should get some other friends involved because I'm terrible at making decisions (it says so in my records) but, I know that they are cooler than us too and really judgmental. I want the best for her but, I don't know how she really feel, deep, down, inside.
I know the whole thing I stressing her out and she just wants to let her heart rest but her mind is pushing her so she is really stressed. Should I get other's involved? I know they care and all but, sometimes they go a little to far. I know the truth hurts, but it's hard to understand the truth in opinion.
2 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years ago
Your going to have to let this situation sort itself out. By warning her you have done all you can really do and since they are friends too she knows how he is so if she gets herself involved in this it is really her own fault. I understand your concern I have a large group of friends as well. We are all 30 and have been friends since we were teenagers. Relationships formed within the group and even two of our friends got married. When divorces and break ups happened it kind of split our group apart but eventually everyone worked out some differences, but things have never been the same. You have to realize just like I did that things change and you just have to let things happen but if they want to be together you can't stop it. All you do is be there to pick up the pieces if it all falls apart.
- Anonymous8 years ago
It almost sounds like you're dissing your "friend". Saying she's not cool at all. I mean, how old are you anyways? Be a good friend and don't hold her to some stupid junior high or high school standards... If she likes him she likes him. It doesn't sound like it's hurting anyone except for you.