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Uncomfortable About Boyfriends Female Friend?

Ill try to keep this short.

We have been together for 2 years, he is faithful, I can trust him etc

He ran into her at a store & she was an old friend of his (they used to like each other though)

Now he says he wants to hang out with her and make her part of our circle of friends

I know I should give her a chance but I really dont want to

I cant help but feel a little jealous for some reason

I know Im being irrational

What should I do? Right now Im thinkin of just meeting her, if I dont like the vibes shes giving off, Im just gonna let him know she cant be a part of the "circle"

But what if he doesnt listen & wants her to stick around anyway?

Thanks

Update:

The reason I dont really wanna give her a chance is cause I remember her making some rude comments about me 2 years back when we first started going out on Facebook. Now she's apparently saying all these nice things about me to my boyfriend, but she doesn't even KNOW me. Sounds sketchy

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You can only ask!

    Not demand!

    You demand!

    You just may lose him!

    Why not meet with her?

    Don't go by "Vibes"!

    They can send mixed signals!

    Listen to her and see just where her head is at and check her out top to bottom!

    Guys as well as women can become friends!

    In relationships!

    They too can become friends depending on how and what was it that broke them up!

    Make it a 1-on-1 meeting!

  • Finwie
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    If you trust him then you'll give her a chance. She won't get him if he's not interested in cheating or leaving you. You have no right to deny her a place in your friend group if she gets along with everybody, you're not the boss.

  • 8 years ago

    then **** it

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