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Is it possible to get a girl that rejected you?

I asked this girl out for coffee and we were acquantences before, and she said possibly and we never really talked after that. It's now been 5 months since then. What should i do?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    5 months?!?!?

    Holy crap, dude. Persistence pays off, sometimes. But after 5 months? If she thinks about you at all, she will (correctly) conclude that you have given up on her.

    You're taking the "I'll do nothing at all and hope that something happens" approach. That never works, btw.

    If you really want her, then at this point I would say...

    Ask her out again. ONCE. If she rejects you, move on. Find someone else. But bluntly...if the girl you asked out 5 months ago rejects you again...it is probably your own fault this time around. Nothing says "I'm not interested" much better than ignoring a lady for 5 months. What incentive would she have to think that you like her now?

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    You have to find out what her interests are. I'm sorry, in this day and age, if you are trying to attract a young girl, asking her out for coffee is not going to get her interested.

    5 months? After 5 months of not talking to a girl, that's going to lead her into forgetting about you. You can ask her out again. Don't mention going out for coffee be more creative than that.

  • 8 years ago

    It's hard to get the girl out if you guys were just acquaintances before. It means you guys hardly know each other.First off for you to get close to her is to text her, you gotta find out what her interests are and what she likes to do then you use the information you know about her to ask her out to do the things she likes to do. That would make her feel you guys have a common ground or interest. If she isn't really responsive, do it again the next week and try to initiate convo with her.If you guys start to text more and she starts to become responsive, be the one to cut off the conversation. Girls usually likes about that are a bit mysterious and it makes her wants to know more about you.

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