Tired of approaching women?solution?

When someone rejects us, we do this crazy thing and start rejecting ourselves. We stop going to the gym, eating well and maybe even do too much weed. Why are you punishing yourself?

No need. Get back to the gym and reward yourself for being the great guy you are. Just because someone else decides they want something else, it doesn't mean you're any less great. Their loss. Depression is common, when we go through a tough time, but it's a colossal waste of time. You could be talking to girls (yes, you should) and living your life. If you do, the ones who may have rejected you because they are "not ready for a relationship" will take notice of you. They'll wonder why you're doing so well without and them and maybe even wonder if they made a mistake.

Girls like attention. It's how they feel special. You don't have to be aggressive, but I think talking to them, maintaining eye contact, gently brushing hair off her face, taking her hand.. are all things that will make girls feel you're the best thing ever. 2-3 weeks without kissing is too long. A girl wants to feel that you're attracted to her - that she's irresistible to you. Taking your time is nice but touch is important. Try it... So many guys are jerks, why not stand out by doing things that a girl will notice. Make a girl feel special and she'll be yours forever. But, don't be a pushover, or a doormat. Still spend time with your friends, go the gym (!); had to say that again. Don't let her believe you'd be lost without her, or she won't respect you. Make her feel like she can be relaxed and totally herself in your company. And come across as a nice guy, a funny guy, a sweet guy, or a good guy, but NOT a ladies' man.

Good luck.

lol i like what you said =D . well, personally, i am very out going and if there's a guy who i am intrested in i immediately go over and talk to him about the first thing that pops up in my head. it's always very random, but they seem to appriciate it. i usually have a nice, flirty conversation so that the guy knows am interested and doesn't mind asking me out or anything. it's easier like that because the girl makes the whole situation easier for the guy to make his move =) it's always nicer if it's not one person who has make all the effort. anyhow, girls usually feel respected and more wanted if a guy makes the first move, so sometimes it's just needed for you approach the girl. and usually if you get in a relationship, after a couple of outtings that you have paid for, a decent girl would treat you out sort of like a 'thank you for everything and i care about you too'. i do that once in a while and although the guy in the end sneaks off the pay the check during the dinner lol, my intention is still there and is appriciated =). anyhow, all this to say: there are girls who approach guys and there are also girls who dont... maybe things will change, maybe they wont.. but in any case, either the guy or the girl will have to make their move at a point or another if they want something to happen =)