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Why do black men hit on white women?

As an attractive young white girl today a black guy approached me . He seemed to be on weed or something an proceeded to say once he got himself together he would be taking me out to dinner . He then stated never mind we'll go now an accosted me grabbing an pulling at my arm dragging me down a street a bit by my arm . I had to tell him i was married to get him off of me an left...fast... Im not racist by any means but do not think the way most black men approach females is appropriate. They hoot an hollar licking they're lips like you are a peice of t bone steak . What's the obsession black men have trying to get with white women? Thoughts?

Im not racist but know this question will be called that but i do think white women shouldn't date black men .

Update:

@Iasac , yoi do not sound human , lay off the pot " bro" an maybe next time you holla at me I'll give you a shot.

Update 2:

@, transgender homura It may be legal but you don't grab at another person especially a girl

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    I have noticed this as well. You should have called the cops when he touched you. Or did what I would do and mace the hell out him. I think many men, of all races, just think they are gods gift to women and can't deal when they get turned down. But I rarely get hit on by black men. When people see me it is obvious to them I am a pagan. For some reason many black men are afraid of that. Something about witchcraft just scares them.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Well I am not a woman but I am observant. And the first answer doesn't know what she is talking about. Yes they are the same species, but there is a cultural difference there. Most black men approach women in a more aggressive manner, you know trying all that slick talk. Most white men are more subtle in their approach, being nice and respectful and what not. Now this is not all black men and white men. A lot of black men approach women the way most white men would and vice versa. The way I approach women is straight forward, I am direct I let her know what I want then and there I don't small talk. I am nice but not too nice because I noticed a lot of women don't like that. Once I approach her and ask for her number she gives it to me I say ok nice talking to you and leave, she says no I say well that's alright and I leave. I don't like to waste time.

  • 7 years ago

    Stop trolling! "You are an attractive white girl" what does that have to do with the point you are making? Get over yourself! Why dont you ask why whitr women hit on black men? Or why white women flip out when they get turned down by black men? Or why white women act like every black man is drolling over them and give you the body language (im not interested) Thats very annoying when you are not even interested in them. A lot of white women are stuck up and think without them the earth will stop spinning. I am not saying what the guy did was appropriate but there are a lot of questions to be asked about white women thats no one cares to ask. All I seem to hear is black man this black man that.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You are right to be upset.

    Race need not come into it.

    His behaviour was disgusting.

    Unfortunately, that kind of behaviour often works, since white American girls are generally so cheap and easy. (Not all, I hasten to add)

    Scream a lot and call a cop next time, for your protection. It's a sexual assault. It's your duty. The next girl might not be so lucky.

    Get a strong pepper spray with siren (or a good strong spray can of perfume will do in a pinch) Learn survival self defence.

    Statistically, not only is rape more popular than sports, but 250,000 mostly white girls in America are kidnapped each year to feed the sex slave industry (and most of them said "that won't happen to me"). And that has nothing to do with racialism either. The criminals are of every race and level in society

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Yes

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Because they find them attractive.

    I find Latinas attractive, but not Black women; and it's nothing personal or racial, just my taste.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    "I'm not racist"

    Yet you are admitting to generalizing an entire race of people based solely on the actions of a handful of people you allege to have run into.

  • 8 years ago

    Are you aware of the difference between the words "and" & "an"? This difference makes it easier for people to read what the hell you write.

  • 8 years ago

    maybe he thought you were selling appearance has a lot to do it.. oh well better luck next time.

  • 8 years ago

    Being neither I don't know, but I do know that it really upsets black women.

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