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What is your opinion about this situation. I need some advice.?

Husband is going over to his female friend house that is married. I assume the husband does not care. They live next door. They were friends before we met. She keep asking him to paint all these things she purchased at a flea market for some type of flower arrangement. They keep asking him if they need to pay him. He says no. So this lady baked cakes and send him home with one and her husband been cutting the grass free of charge. I told him he need to start charging them. He replied " at least I got something". It makes me feel bad because I bake all the time for him. He will tell me the stuff is good. But he brags about what she makes. Then he is disappointed with me because I refuse to eat some of the cake she made.

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago
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    get him wearing your panties 24/7..you wont have to worry about him..send a pic to her or invite her over and show her he wears your panties,,because your in control

    Source(s): read hope alexanders hub pages.con you,ll see the power panties have on a straight male
  • Emily
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    I don't think this is something to be overly alarmed about, personally. I know in the military world, we rely heavily on helping each other out, especially our neighbors and friends. There was a time when one wife down the street had a husband on a deployment and she needed help fixing her sink. I was the one who got my husband when he came home and said, "Get your butt down there and fix the sink for her!" Or there was a time when I had a flat tire and my jack broke so I called my friend's husband to come and help me. Not that I wanted to be around him particularly. I just knew he was close than my husband was and I figured it would be easier. We don't have a lot of money around here so we are constantly trading services or giving food in exchange. If someone asks my husband for help, I don't feel jealous, worried, or anything else. He's a handyman to have around and he loves helping people! If he comes home with cookies, I'm like, "Hey, did so-and-so make those? Can I have one?"

    This is an opportunity to become friends with this woman. Obviously, there isn't anything going on or the husband wouldn't be coming over and mowing your yard for you. If your husband starts acting funny and hiding things, or the other husband all of a sudden has a negative attitude towards y'all, then you need to be worried. Until then, be grateful that you have a considerate husband and nice people who live near you. Ask her to teach you how to make something your husband likes and invite her over! Every couple needs a good couple friends.

    But that's just me, but I wouldn't judge the situation to quickly until I at least gave it a shot.

  • 8 years ago

    Simply they're just very close to each other, like brother and sister, which you've said before you've marriage him. If you're suspicious, why not join them when your husband visit their home or invite the couple to your house too to have a simple get together to iron out some doubts.

  • 8 years ago

    In my experience, he has joined them in a sexual situation, i.e. threesome, and they are hoping you will join as well. In any case, don't be too naive. Why can't he paint these things at home? Why is her husband mowing your lawn instead of your husband.

    Source(s): Personal experience.
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  • 8 years ago

    He just likes to help her out, but maybe this girl wants him to be more of a helper.if you know what i mean. eat it with him when she makes something, because i dont beleve that she poisoned it. lol but maybe you should have a little more faith in him. :)

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck - -

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