Need help with sex life?

We have been married 45 yrs. Most of our sex has been of the fun and playful kind, not the candlelight and music kind.

Think outside the bedroom. Next time you take a shower, wear just the towel around the house for a while. See how long it takes before he pulls it off. My wife wears just a Tshirt that comes to mid butt. (drives me crazy) cook breakfast in just panties on a day that he goes to work (or golfing, fishing, etc). He will think about that all day. On a day when he is home, do the same, then sit on his lap and feed him his breakfast. Snuggle up on the couch when he is watching TV, then start unbuttoning something on you or on him. Have a naked video night where you both sit naked on the couch, popcorn and drinks, and watch something you like (doesn't have to be porn). Have naked breakfast on Saturday mornings. Don't forget car sex. Scout out a place when you are alone, then one night when you are driving home, say, "Turn here." and guide him to the spot.. Pull out some battery powered candles for the dashboard. We had a book called "101 sexual positions" and a jar with pieces of paper numbered 1 to 101. We would pick a number and try that position. Have sex in every room, on, under, or beside every piece of furniture. Try sex on the stairs. After you have done a few of these, challenge him to come up with something. But most of all HAVE FUN!!!!

Done be so available. I remember when I was younger I would hear guys saying; oh, yeah I am going to get married so I can have sex every day...then those same guys who are now married would say, I wish I was a bachelor again so I can have sex every day....

Funny thing about human nature is once we get what we want we don't want it anymore. The bad thing about males in general if they think there single buddy are having fun and sex all the time. Sooo not true.

Just be yourself, the girl he married not his wife. Read, cook, craft what ever define who you are; pretend like you are single and he will come around; he just may need a break.

Cook him his favorite meal and put it on a warmer to keep it warm. Then take a shower and put on some sexy lingerie. Meet him at the door in the lingerie when he comes home, drop to your knees and give him oral sex right on the spot.

After he is good and worked up, take his hand and lead him to the bedroom. Take off all your clothes, lay back on the bed, spread your legs and tell him "I need to be satisfied NOW!!!" He will be out of his clothes and on you in no time. Take your time and work him over good. Take charge and really be aggressive with him, taking what you want with no apprehension at all. Finish him off by letting him shoot in your mouth, and swallow it all. Then snuggle up to him and put his face between your breasts.

Then later, take him to the kitchen and feed him, as he will be very hungry after all that awesome sex. You can't do better than this, trust me! Most men would give anything to have what I just described!

play hard to get, wear sexy lingerie, surprise him with the lingerie by wearing it under something.. We like it when women are coy and all that stuff.. or just...????

you get him wearing panties and he,ll turn into a great lover and his mind will be on your wants and needs