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My husband thinks i'm having mood swings?
So my husband came home from work and sat on our couch. I had purposely gotten all cute and i wore one of his T shirts. i sat on his lap and started to give him a lap dance (i was trying to be sexy) he kept looking over my shoulder to watch the t.v. ..... i noticed and got really but hurt. I am not the type of girl to try things like this so it hurt my feelings. Anyways i got really sad because i tried to be sexy for him and i failed... and he thinks i am having mood swings because i got sad... What do you guys think? am i over reacting and having mood swings? or did i have a legit reason to be sad? We have only been married for 4 months... and i have a really good figure so i know hes not grossed out by my body. what could it be??
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- ConnorLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
You aren't having mood swings, he just wasn't understanding what you were trying to do for him.
You can't get mad at someone over something they don't even know they have done. Sorry but sometimes at the end of the day you just want to come home and chill. Sometimes you get tired enough to miss the subtle hints or even the not so subtle hints. I don't think you should allow yourself to get upset over it.
Over reacting isn't a good idea. You didn't fail at being sexy. Women always have to take that to the extreme. A guy isn't in the mood so that means you are fat and ugly and no one wants you (I'm being extreme to make a point). STOP DOING THAT. Women reject men for sex and we don't lose every ounce of self confidence. If he didn't love you and find you attractive he wouldn't have married you.
-Connor