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Girl help, i dont know what to do?

So theres this girl ive been talking to a lot lately. Im grade 11, shes grade 10. We both play volleyball and basketball, varsity starters for our school. I find it really easy to talk to her and i really like her now. The problem is though, that whenever i compliment her on her looks or her personality she seems to get really shy. I havent said anything like that to her in a while because i dont want her to feel awkward and think im just being a player. How can i get closer to her if she does this kind of stuff? Or should i just stop complimenting her? Sounds crazy tho

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    OMG I want a boyfriend like you. Not even joking.

    This girl sounds really unconfident about herself. I think she does like you as when shy girls get complimented... it means a lot.

    Hopefully if you keep complimenting her she will grow more confident. make her feel special and she will fall for you. And if you have any worries about what she thinks about you like being a 'player' just tell her you like her!!

  • 8 years ago

    A lot of girls get shy when they get complimented. It's natural. Don't compliment her too much; go for one a week, maybe, spontaneously. You can still get close to her. Don't just focus on compliments; talk about stuff that's more personal if you're feeling brave. Good luck!

  • 8 years ago

    How about you stop complimenting her, and you start asking her questions about how she's doing, how her day was or anything leading to a conversation. She may feel it's awkward you complimenting her cause she doesn't really know you. I find it weird when a guy I don't know keep complimenting me. Even if it's genuine it's weird after a while. You don't know if he's creepy or just doesn't know how to approach you.

  • 8 years ago

    Usually, if girls get shy when given compliments it doesn't mean they are uncomfortable. It is usually a sign that they like you and are flattered. They just don't really know what to say. Many girls experience this such as myself... You two only have one year of an age difference which means it could definitely work out (I know many of my gr10 friends in high school going out with grade 11's or 12's even).

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Compliment her once in a while, you know, if she looks particularly good and different one day. Maybe say "pretty" rather than "hot" or something, and keep it simple and relaxed. Don't do it too often, though. Get closer to her by helping her, making jokes with her and other, generally friendly stuff, before getting more serious.

    Good Luck!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Dont stop complimenting her. If she seems mad, sad, uninterseted, or tells you to stop when you do, then you should stop. Pretty much all girls like being complimented. Maybe shes not into you, and she doesnt want to tell you or feels weird. If you are close enough, then just ask her about it.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    ask he whats wrong. a compliment is good.

  • 8 years ago

    she's not shy, she's flattered by what you're saying and she doesn't know hoe to respond. keep complimenting her!!!

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