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I cheated on my boyfriend help?

Im in highschool going into 11th grade next year. Right now I have finals and last Friday a ton of kids from highschool came to Sams party to have some fun before testing starts. I rode there with my friend Christine and her older sister Hailey who is going to be a senior next year, and Haileys boyfriend Jeff. I did not go with my boyfriend Adam because he likes to ride with his friends all the time and I feel like he has been ignoring me a lot lately and thought he was going to break up with me soon. He said he was going to Sams party but I just hung out with a few friends until he texted me back saying where he was at Sams place cause its huge. Christine is more chatty then I am and has a lot more friends so she left me after a bit, but then Jeff came over and we started talking and he is really hot and a senior so I was starting to like him. It was a nice night, so we wanted to go for a walk and we kissed!!it was really passionate, but I felt really guilty afterwards because Hailey has always been so nice to me and I have known her since the 5th grade. I don't think that Jeff felt bad though because he told me that he was going to break up with Hailey anyway this year when he goes to college. But still I don't know what to do. I stupidly told Christine after the party and she doesn't want to be my friend anymore because her sister and her are bestfriends and I havent talked to her in a few days. I don't know if Hailey knows yet or if Jeff even told her. I also feel bad for cheating on my boyfriend who is not breaking up with me because I found him during Sams party and he told me that he loved me like he does and said that he is tierd because his sister just had a baby and it cries alot which I forgot about. I dont even want to be with Adam anymore I want to be with Jeff I think that I love him because we like the same books, tv shows, he is really smart and has goals, and really hot. What do I do?

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
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    If you loved Jeff you would know it- you don't love someone because you have similar interests.

    You cheated on your bf and forgot about what he is having to deal with at home (new baby)- dump him because he deserves better.

    The fact that you an Jeff both cheated makes you perfect for eachother.

  • 8 years ago

    You don't want to be with Adam any more. Ok, admit that to yourself and to him, and break up with him. The reason isn't that you want to be with Jeff, the reason is that you don't want to be with Adam.

    You may or may not be able to have something with Jeff. He already cheated on Hailey, so consider that. Give yourself a couple of days after you break it with Adam, and see if Jeff is available. DON'T let him two-time you with Hailey.

    If you find that it doesn't work with Jeff, and you find yourself without a boyfriend for a while, that's life. Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

  • 8 years ago

    It's only fair to tell him that you cheated on him, and if you don't wanna be with him, break up with him. If Jeff cheated on his girlfriend that easily chances are he won't hesitate to do the same thing to you. He's going to college anyways so he probably doesn't even want a relationship.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I don't think you should feel bad. But it was only a kiss. You should tell your boyfriend and he will either forgive you or he won't. If he does forgive you.. Good if he doesn't chalk it up And move on. You can't change it so please don't be sad over it.

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