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she has a boyfriend! How do I get her?!?

Hi,

So i've been friends with this girl for like 3 years. We're really close and she basically tells me everything. I think i'm falling in love with her, every time she talks to me I can't stop smiling and she's basically all i think about. We talk all the time and i flirt with her and i think that she does too. She always touches me and makes sexual references, pretending that she's joking. She asks me to touch her sometimes, making excuses like 'feel how soft these trousers are'. I rubbed her leg and she looked at me directly in the eye and smiled!! What does that mean? We did a course together and she asked me to the prom, but then pulled out because her boyfriend didnt want her to go with me, even as friends. I like her so much and don't know what to do!

Update:

Btw, she doesn't flirt with everyone, it seems to just be me. And she talks about her bf to me sometimes, and it's as if she's waiting for a reaction. She says she's happy sometimes, then complains. And she says things like i would make the perfect bf, even though i made it obvious that i liked her before she had a bf, at least i think i did.

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  • 8 years ago
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    just tell her how you feel, she smiles at you and tells you to touch her, she likes you. i do that to boys i like. and honestly idk what to do about her being in a relationship cause my crush recently got a gf and i thought he liked me.... but honestly just tell her how you feel. and when people say if two people are happy leave them alone, well who knows if you dont tell her how you feel right now you wont know what would have happened if you did and you will regret not telling her.

    Mine: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aubqd...

  • 8 years ago

    Jeez. That's tough because although you should not be going there, she is not behaving the way she should be since she's taken.

    Honestly, I wouldn't trust her. If a girl leaves her boyfriend for you, who's to say she wouldn't leave you for another man? That goes for the opposite genders as well. People who leave their partners for someone else will most likely do it again.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Have some respect and know your limits. She has a boyfriend. Treat others how you would like to be treated. If you had a girlfriend, you wouldn't want another guy trying to get with her.

  • 8 years ago

    You don't. She's has a bf. if two person are happy together leave them alone.

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  • 8 years ago

    If she has a boyfriend LEAVE HER ALONE. That's it.

  • 8 years ago

    Talk to her. Maybe you have chance.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    Oh my god please dont. She has a boyfriend. Stop. Seriously

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you don't

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