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ok so there is a woman called gillian who i like wev been friends for about 4 years she has a bf so i told her i really liked her and she said do u realise i have a bf and i said yeah i do but i wanna go out with you and she said HOW WOULD WE MAKE IT WORK she lives about 3 hrs away in car and i said i would come see her and stuff and she said shes moving closer in a year and i said well il wait till u move and she just said we cant she never once said she was hapy with her bf so do u think she likes me or not thanks for the help :)

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also we still chat and on facebook she sends private messages when we talk rather than just writing on my wall what could i do to see if she does wanna go out with me :) thanks guys

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well firstly good on you for having the balls to tell the girl you like her even though shes in a relationship :)

    Long distance is never good unless both sides are willing to make the effort to come see each other. I think she may indeed like you but its a bit strange that she would dump her boyfriend for you without much thinking which makes me think she either really really likes you or she just likes having options. I say go for it and see how it works out man :)

  • 8 years ago

    it sounds like IF she likes you, she likes her BF more.

    granted, that doesn't mean you shouldn't give it a shot... just don't be the reason for their breakup.

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