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Relationship advice and insecurity?
Hi Guys,
I'm needing some help and advice as I have some anxiety issues. I've been with my Gf for some time and I love her alot, and she loves me back. At the moment its long distance which sucks and makes things harder. We are both in our late 20s.
As for me - until she came, I had some horrendous gf/dates that left me scarred and made me believe that I wouldn't ever be happy.
However, she happened and I was excited and it worked out. However, from my POV, Prior to her, I hadn't slept with anyone nor been in a long term relationship as such. She had one long term relationship and obv did sleep.
It took me a while to get over that, but now I feel a bit at ease with that ..
However, whilst we were talking she mentioned she went on a holiday with her ex - thats before she met me. It kind of made me feel a bit lousy and as if im seconds and It did make me upset. My Gf did say that the reason why she didnt tell me was not to make me upset.
I can't shake this feeling off on how I feel - plus I guess I just feel that she's done it all and like there's nothing much new left for me and us to do.
Any advice, help?
2 Answers
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Alot of cases even as a lady is pregnant issues have a tendency to annoy more advantageous than they could otherwise as a results of hormones..this may properly be a number of what is going on yet no longer all..even as the being pregnant is making issues worse i imagine you should my flow talk with a counselor earlier getting married..someone that can help you you make sure in case your jealousy subject matters are some thing you are able to artwork via or you are able to finally end up married with a infant and extremely unhappy along with your existence..
- 8 years ago
Why? Just because she's done some of the things you might do with her, doesn't mean it's not gonna be awesome/happy times!
I mean if it was like that for everyone, imagine what it'd be for everyone who breaks up with a boyfriend/girlfriend. They experience new things with their new boyfriends/girlfriends if they ever have a new one. It doesn't mean it's less great of an experience or less of joy.
Just think of it as you, giving her/sharing new moments together. Just because I eat a piece of strawberry cake once, doesn't mean I can't eat it, or other fruitcakes again with no joy.