iPhone disabled please connect to iTunes. Please help mee?

Hello

My son has typed in my passcode wrong on my iPhone 5 and it says 'iPhone disabled please connect to iTunes'

I had rung O2, and they said that the only thing they can do is do a restore on the phone but then everything will be deleted

I'm not bothered about the apps getting deleted, it's the photos and videos I am most worried about because they are of my 4 month old daughter since birth and these are the only photos that I have of her. I have only sent around 20 photos to family and friends so if I lose all these photos on my phone then I will only have 20. There are over 2000 pictures of her on my phone so I really really need to get them back

I don't have iTunes, I have never downloaded it or anything. I have always taken my pictures off just by plugging my phone into the computer, going to My Computer and copy and pasting them like that but I have not done this in 2 months and there are so many photos and videos that will be lost.

I downloaded iTunes, logged in using my email and password but every time I connect my phone it keeps saying for me to put my password in on the phone but the numbers aren't on the phone screen.

Is there any way I can get my photos back?

Can Apple get them back for me?

Please help