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Is it ok for a 23 yr old guy to date a 12 yr old girl ? Why or why not?

Cuz my cousin is dating a 12 yr old girl and I am speechless I think it's wrong what do u guys think?

Update:

this is happening in india and they most prolly dont have any laws against it so its perfectly legal

Update 2:

and he says love sees no boundaries ...i amm like omg stop deceiving yourself

Update 3:

i live in usa ..he lives in india

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  • 8 years ago
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    When people answer that it's against the law, are you guys saying it's against the law where she lives or where -you- live? (Remember that there are different cultures and laws out there)

    I'm against it as each year of being a teenager is a huge part of growing up. She really doesn't know much despite many that age thinking that they do.

    Try leading the guy to a girl his own age.

  • 8 years ago

    Its not okay. A 12 year old does not have much ideas of relationships. Due to huge age difference, what common interest could they have? A young girl is too immature to enter a relationship. So NO.

  • 8 years ago

    NO that isn't normal AT ALL. He is nearly twice her age and I can't understand what he'd see in her. She is a child and she is underage. Please make sure this girl is safe and doesn't get hurt. If other members of your family don't know about their relationship you need to tell them. If child protection services found out he could be in a lot of trouble.

  • 8 years ago

    Its against the law, and hopefully your cousin goes to jail.

  • 8 years ago

    it's not ok... dating is one thing, but sexual contact is another issue! there are laws against having sexual relationships with minors... your cousin can get into serious trouble if anything goes wrong.

  • 8 years ago

    No, that is called child molestation and is illegal in the USA. Do you live in Yemen? It is normal there.

  • 8 years ago

    Its insane.... Ur cousin is taking benefit of that girl... this is nt a right thing..

  • 8 years ago

    One word. No.

  • 8 years ago

    Wrong .. don't worry it will not last long

  • 8 years ago

    Its against the law. But in my opinion if he's not haveing any sexual intercourse with her and she mature for her age it's fine.

    Source(s): I'm 13 dating a 20 year old.
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