Found out the girl i like has a boyfriend advice?

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honestly i'm not surprised, but frankly i'm starting to get frustrated and losing confidence this is the 3rd time this has happened in the past year. and because of my mis info i've lost a friend and im really close to giving up at this point. im 16 and i'm not good at talking to new people, i choose to blame it on how i used to be fat in middle and elementary and was bullied for it and am really shy because of that i used to weigh 240 now im like 180 but im still self conscious thanks for taking the time to read this but to the question at hand how should i proceed, again this keeps happening... -_-

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@kdog i wasn't planning on it thats just a dick move, also people say be confident but i dont think i know how i grew up learning to be humble, nice etc. and i always put people before myself and i'm just not good at talking to people im not a very social with people im not completely comfortable with its just has always been that way :/

Anonymous · Answer

If the girl you like has a boyfriend there is nothing you can do but get over her. Don't be that guy who tries to steal her away from him, and if she isn't interested you will just make yourself look desperate. Best and only real advice anyone is going to give you at this point is to just get over it. There are TONS of girls out there, and be confident! I'm a shy guy too I know how it feels but being confident and not giving a **** what other people thinks helps out a lot!

Russell · Answer

It could be 100 times before you meet the right girl, it just takes time. Don't give up, your young and be confident. Girls love confident guys.

JDIsar · Answer

Be a really god friend to her until they break up (which they will eventually i swear) and then start becoming more than friends.

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Found out the girl i like has a boyfriend advice?

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