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Don't know if I should text her or not.. Do you think she likes me?
Okay. Few months back in april, i met this girl at a competition for our club (her first meet was at the competition). And at the competition me and this other guy got along with her and had fun. And one of those days at the competition she wrote down her number on her arm and showed it to me but it was a glance. Luckily that image was kinda embedded in my mind, and i wasnt to sure if it was correct. So at the end of that day. I kinda just saved what i thought could have been her number. Then the final day at the competition, it was sorta the same old thing just getting along and laughing having fun but by the end of that day, i felt pretty depressed because i started to like her and i saw her with the other guy playing around with her and flirting with her. Im not much of a player and dont flirt alot. So after seeing that, i just kinda brush all my feelings away pretty quick. Then when i got back to school i recognized her in my photography class. But she doesnt talk to me often in the class be cause we sit soo far away and our teacher is pretty strict. Later on that week. We got called in to do a commercial for the whole school regaurding the competition and how we placed pretty hight for a first year rookie team and we got to see and speak to each other again and after we got done with the commercial the other guy decided to mess around with me and tell me she likes me (well i think he was messing around, he just the type of guy that jokes around alot). And she went up to us and told him to stop being so rude. 3 weeks went buy and the dude txt me saying if i wanted to go ice skating with me and the girl. They told me they invited me cuz her sister likes me ( she saw me at the competition) but i highly doubt that because she really didnt look like she liked me. But that night, i had alot of fun with her because she taught me how to skate because i didnt know how. lol at the end of the night, i saw her in his arms. After that night i kinda brushed all those regained feelings again.. okay now comes the more recent events.
2 weeks ago i got to see her for the last time at a camp for our club. our job was to watch over little kids while they built little robots with legos. And to be honest it was pretty fun watching those kids with her. Because the other guy wasnt there cuz his car broke down. So the three days i was at camp we had a fun time talking and there were times where i would have to protect her from the kids cuz we all found her tickle spot. I got to get along with her two sisters. And yea i started to like her alot. So on the last day i was able to attend at the camp, near the end of the day, we all were discussing that the guy was going to come in the next day and she stated some things i did not expect. She said that he was annoying and didnt wanna come in since he was coming in. I couldnt make it because i had to go to an orientation. So i really dont know what happend that last day but the last day i was there i wanted to ask for her number but i forgot cuz i was in a hurry to my best friends graduation so i didnt get it. Just about a week ago, i spoke to our president about how i felt about her and was hoping if she could do something so we can see each other again and she said no but the next day she planned to have everybody in the club go see World War Z and planned it on a day where i couldnt make it. She told me she was going to invite the girl. And was only inviting her for me. (She doesnt like her btw). But the thing was i specificaly told her not to ever give me her number and she goes ahead and gives it to me. When she gave it to me tho, it actually the number i remembered and saved on to back at competition. I didnt call or text her because i couldnt go to the movies that day cause i was busy. but now on wednesday july 3, were having a game night and i want to ask her if she wants to come.
So i dont know what to do now, im just going crazy right now. I really wanna see and talk to her i just dont know how?! our presidents no help .-. Do you think she likes me? (I know itll be hard to tell) I really didnt wanna know her number and wanted to get it in person. So should i just wait till i see her next year (problem with this is that im not gonna be in high school and i really dont have away of seeing her unless is winter break cuz of how busy i will be in college, btw we are both 17 and shes like 2 weeks older than me i started school way too early). My second option is to just talk to her and ask her if she wants to go to the game night (since she actually gave me her number before). or my final option is just to forget and move on.. which i really dont wanna do.
It's weird cuz like she doesnt seem like a shy person until shes around me i guess. cuz theres these times where i would take off her glasses and she just covered her face and wouldnt let me see her without her glasses but when its with other people its like she takes of her glasses and really dont care what they think.. but yea i guess I should say something. but what?
im pretty hopeless, arent i? it's just im scared if she might think of me a different way since i got her number from someone and not her..
3 Answers
- Anonymous8 years agoFavorite Answer
TEXT HER. I'm a girl and can tell she wants you to know she likes you, without actually telling you. She would probably be too embarrassed to come right out and tell you, and would rather you just figure it out on your own. She seems to be dropping a lot of hints, but could be getting frustrated that you are not acting on any of them. Make your move soon before she loses interest! The plans you have for the 3rd is the perfect opportunity to test the waters. You need to show her/ tell her anything to let her know how you feel. It can be subtle too, she'll understand. So to initially answer your question, i do think she likes you. I wish you the best of luck!
- 8 years ago
Talk to her in person ask for her number (from her!) and ask her out on a date. Man up you can do this she seems to like you so make the move before you end up friendzoned
- 8 years ago
Jason, I will tell you flat out the ENTIRE issue you're experiencing as your close friend, whether you think I am or not. You're trying to predict how things will work out TOO much, I mean, think about it. It may seem a little harsh to say that to you when you're in such a vulnerable position searching for help, but I've talked to you about this kind of stuff before, and you're simply trying to predict every detail of this "future relationship" and are fearing too much about rejection. You can't predict how exactly a relationship is going to go, period. You can predict to some extent, but the majority of it is to kind of guess and hope for the best. You obviously affect the outcome of it with your actions, but it's still unpredictable. Things happen out of your control. I'd also rather put this here in text, rather than tell it on Skype because I think it would be better for you have something you can look over time and time again and understand what I'm trying to say here as I've tried to make these points with you in the past. (they seem to have faded away as something unimportant to you)
Believe it or not, there are plenty of guys who simply go and ask random girls out based on "simply their appearance" or first impression at public places and actually end up having it work out to various levels. What I'm getting at is that dating is a "trial or error" for finding someone you feel is emotionally compatible with being with you, not something where you when you go out with someone, that immediately means you would die for that person you love them so much. It's an "experiment", if you will. No matter what, when we're all trying to date and find someone we think will make us happy for the rest us lives and will ultimately/hopefully share the rest of our lives with, we will find many forms of rejection and have to find ways to accept and coup with it. Failure is a part of life no matter how you look at it and we all have to deal with it one way or another Jason. You simply can't avoid it, it happens to everyone. The more people understand this and face it head on, the closer they will get to maturity and success in anything they do.
I, as a friend of yours, honestly and sincerely believe that you should go on Wednesday and call her 100% if you feel all these kinds of thoughts flooding your mind about her and you took the time to write all this on Yahoo, but I also want you to do me a favor if you do so. That being that you keep in mind that of course there's a possibility for rejection or that it's not going to work out, that you don't get too attached too quickly, and if things don't work out, think "at least I know for sure now" and "at least I tried". If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world, and at you least you know for sure without having to guess for the rest of your life suffering on the thought "I wonder if that would've worked out" and regret it. You must understand that all dating means to this other person you think could "possibly" be your significant other is that you're "interested" in them, not that you "are madly in love with them". After a couple weeks of dating, if things seem to be working out, tell them how you really feel, if not, they may do it first, who knows? Girls are most likely not going to tell you that they "like" or "love" you at first because that's kind of what flirting hints to! Additionally, at least the majority of the time in life, girls WILL NOT, I repeat, WILL NOT ask you out first. Guys usually always make the first move and choices. I've seen too many others and have heard from girls who were my friends about how they refuse to ask a guy out first. I've rejected the idea of asking them why, fearing it would lead to some issues involving sexism in society. I've heard about girls at school "crushing" on guys for years waiting for the guy to ask them out because they refuse to make the first step(I don't see much wrong with a girl asking a guy out first, but it's all on preference from person to person based on various beliefs). I guess they just feel it's "unnatural" to them. Guys are supposedly suppose to make the initiative. And just because a girl doesn't crush on you, doesn't mean you don't have a chance for success if you ask them out.
Overall, keep your head straight, prepared for failure, and don't take failure too hard "IF" it happens. You're not going to die from something that doesn't work out. And remember, it's ALL your choice in how you want to go about doing things. If you want to keep them as a friend, then don't ask them out on a "date", but just "hang out" with them, if not, ask them out.
-Zach
Source(s): Been in a relationship Been flirted with Friends who are girls Observing others Reading online about relationships