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What did this girl mean by this?

I'm 18, havent been on a date in a while, but was talking to a girl online(on facebook I mean), and we decided to go on a movie date tomorrow night... as we went on with the conversation, she said "I just gotta say if your feeling it go for it lol cuz I'm too shy to make a move lol just a heads up"... this was after i said we would have a good time even though we're both shy... she's not referring to anything dirty is she? just, to make a move like maybe put my arm around her at the movies? i dont want to do something wrong, lol.

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  • 8 years ago
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    I think by that she means "go for it" as maybe kissing her

    if not just ask her

  • 8 years ago

    I doubt she meant it dirty. I think she is just saying she likes you, bro. But I take it as she doesn't want to be the one who makes the first move.

    If I were in this position, I'd probably just go as friends for this first date, but I'd tell her that you are interested in her romantically, but you don't want to move too fast. This will kind of make it a no pressure date. And therefore you will both be more relaxed. If you do this, I wouldn't put your arm around her at the movies this time.

    But I'm pretty sure this means she likes you, and she was up front with it. Big plus to me :). Congrats :)

  • She's probably joking but being serious at the same time. This is your guy's first date? Then definitely take it slow. Nothing wrong with being shy, be a gentleman for sure though, girls like that. Open the door, if you want to hold her hand ask her if it's ok. And at the end of the night a simple hug is always nice.

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    8 years ago

    Personally I think she is saying that she wants you to "go for it"...and if she does want to enjoy what life has to offer and you think it's "dirty", then there probably won't be a second date. Kisses need to happen and there's nothing wrong with asking her what she had in mind, but either way, be a man cause she just may want you to and you don't want to disappoint the lady.

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  • 8 years ago

    I think she means, make a move relationship-wise. I don't think she means sex, BUT you should really pay attention to the physical cues during the date to be sure. If she touches your hand and stares into your eyes for a long time, she might just be hinting to, "you know". Most girls don't go for that on the 1st date, but she might me different. DON'T TRUST ME THOUGH! I'm not really good with relationships.

    Source(s): I'm a teenage Girl myself
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