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Need advice on decisons!! Teenage girl?
Okay so I'm at a really hard spot and need others opinion and advice.
Basically I'm a high school cheerleader starting this sophomore year. All my friends are also in cheer, literally ALL my friends. And I'm just not into it, I don't really want to be in it but I am for my friends. So I want to quit and join competitive cheer and start a YouTube and take a dance class if I can fit it in. But I'm afraid to join competitive because I wouldn't know anyone at all and I've never done it before and I don't know how it is. (I have social anxiety also) I'm also afraid to start a YouTube because of what people will think. Not a lot, it's just a little burden that would come with starting a YouTube. But I don't really think it would effect me. So I don't want to quit school cheer because if I do I'm letting down the team a little and I feel like I won't be as close to my friends because they won't be able to hangout during the week during the school year or go to any of the events with me because they're working them.. I just don't want to drift away from my friends because they're the best friends I've ever had. I just don't know if I should quit school cheer and do what I want, or stick it out for my friends?
6 Answers
- ?Lv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
You shouldn't do things just because your friends are doing them. You should follow your heart and try competitive cheer. You may think that you don't have any friends in competitive cheer now, but high school is HUGE. There's a diverse group of people doing a diverse amount of things. You'll find someone that you'll be friends with and hang out with, and maybe even someone you happen to go to school with. It's not the end; it's a new beginning.
And if they were true friends, they would support you no matter what. :)
I hope I helped! :D
- Anonymous8 years ago
When I was in high school I played volleyball because all my friends did. But we had a club volleyball team during school and off season of high school ball. I did both. I talked to some of my good friends that were on the high school team to do club with me. It was a win win. Better yourself now because when you look back you will probably wish you would have done it. Making new friends is fun and exciting. Sometimes you just have to push yourself! Do it! You are so young and if you don't like what you do this year you can always change it next year.
- 8 years ago
Have you tried talking to your friends about doing competitive cheer? Maybe some of them also want to try it! If not, just ask them what they think about you switching by yourself. If they respond negatively, they aren't really your friends. Also, you will be able to make new friends if you joined a competitive cheer team.
- aveyLv 45 years ago
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- ?Lv 48 years ago
School cheer will look better on college applications than club cheer.
Also: all your friends are there!
- Anonymous8 years ago
Do what you want. If your friends don't support you in your decision, they aren't really your friends.