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Really jealous bf is destroying mine and her friendship!!!?

My female friend has got a boyfriend and we used to meet up loads an just have a good time.

However, recently she has been avoiding meeting up. I asked er about it and she said her bf thinks we have feelings for eachother (we don't) and he'll get really jealous and break up with her if she does meet up with me.

Any advice on what I or she can do!?!

I don't like her but this guy is destroying our friendship and controlling her

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  • 8 years ago
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    It is common for ignorant guys who are not very confident in their lives/relationships/situations to get very controlling and selfish. I think all you can do is tell your friend once, in a proper conversation that you think it is an unhealthy attitude that he has and that it is destroying your friendship---you are absolutely right on that. Sometimes our friends get wrapped up in someone that they think is okay and then chose to put all their eggs in one basket when a boyfriend comes along. All you can do is warn her and then when her relationship falls to peices---and it will---you will have to decide whether you can be bothered helping out your friend or not.

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