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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 8 years ago

Why am I ignored in school?

I'm 13, and a boy. But no one will ever talk to me in class, and no one likes me like they do to their friends, I feel kinda left out.. in a way, I'm considered weak, and emo and I don't have a chance to prove I'm not. And why do people treat me different when I'm nicer than some? And how can I just disappear until I get through school?? Because I'd rather be unnoticed than seen lonely. Any ideas?

Update:

I don't do much, and I'm not sporty, I like music, from soft to metal (No pop) but I'm just not "average" because I have long hair and like some music that others consider bad -.-. But thanks, I will try to stand out more. :)

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  • 8 years ago
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    Idk most girls are attracted to the loud, Jerkish guys but I'm Really attracted to the ones that seem quiet sitting in the back of the room. I feel like they have like this mental and Emotional Depth that the other guys lack. You know? Like I feel that one day I'll find this Golden personality or maybe my Soulmate. Something I'll never find in anyone else ever in my life. That used to happen to me now I stay to myself purposely because I figured out that my friends wouldn't be my friends if I was "unattractive" So I ditched them now I'm starting off new! You should too change your preferences maybe that's it. Okai. Bye Puddin' good luck! :)

    Source(s): I'm 13 too c:
  • 8 years ago

    Hey bud you’re not weak or emo or anything like that some people just have different preferences. When I was 13 I too felt like that. Nobody would acknowledge me, call me their friend, or hang out with me outside of school or during recess. I felt pretty lonely and started playing videogames a lot. One day I decided to just forget what people think about me and put myself out there. You should start being friendlier to different groups of people, letting others know my interests, taking part in activities. You don’t have to be the next Michael Jordan, just shoot some baskets with people, or play a sport and show your usefulness. You can also actively help your classmates with work, maybe do your work together or offer to explain things to them. I did all of the above and more, until one day all the people who never talked to me started hanging out with me and even now still call or visit me years after elementary school. Then again there are some people that you’re also better off not getting to know. There are some pretty mean spirited people that may just not like you, and if that’s the case it’s ok just leave them alone and find people you can really connect with. I hope this helps.

    Source(s): My personal experience. Being 18 and going through a similar experience at that age
  • 8 years ago

    Well, I think a lot of people are in your situation. You just have to find those people and befriend them and if that doesn't work just strike up a conversation with someone in your classes. That's how I've made a lot of my friends. Try to get involved in clubs and stuff that you like and you'll end up making a friend. Don't feel down. You're only 13. There's plenty of time to find friends. People just don't like other people that are different from themselves. Don't try to disappear - being lonely and in the shadows is no fun at all. Put yourself out there and have some fun! Plus, there's always college!

    Source(s): Experience
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Dont do that you'll miss out on alot. Try being more social. Hangout. Be in a club. Joke around with classmates. Everyone loves a guy with a good sense of humor. Do you have any hobbies? Join a sport team. Be creative. Hope this helped. :)

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  • 8 years ago

    Dude! pick out the people you think are cool. Think about what makes them the way they are. Pick out the qualities you like, and that's who you want to be. people make friends with people and like the company of other people because subconsciously they want to be more like that person. So if you consciously figure out what these things are, you can try from now on to be the person you really want to be.

    Source(s): If all else fails just start smoking pot, then you wont really care either way and it pretty much guarantees friends, even if they smoke too. :)
  • 8 years ago

    First thing is are you new? Or maybe they may not talk to you because you don't let them and are kind of closed off. If you haven't maybe try to include yourself more or instead of waiting for someone to ask if you want to join go ahead and ask them yourself if you wanna join. Try that and if it doesn't work you can email me at mollychocolate33@yahoo.com

  • 8 years ago

    u cant ppl force ppl to be frnds with u, can u????????????

    dnt EVER think bout disappearing..shine like a star..u r only 13! study well..show them wat u can do.dnt think urslf weak...u r nt." people treat me different when I'm nicer..." i see u have a good heart.ppl be may physically strong but having a big hr8 like urs matters a lot..IT WILL MAKE DIFFERENCE SUM DAY.make urslf strong from inside ,b confident wateva u do.if u fail in sumthing learn from ur mistakes.there is no end to learning. sumday u will be perfect wat u do.everyone will follow u.dnt think that there is no chance to prove urslf...there always are.u dnt have to prove to sum1 else but to urslf.have u watched HOW TO TRAIN UR DRAGON..watch that movie...

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Be who you are and if no one excepts you screw them no one liked me because I listen rock music and I'm straight edge I'm proud to be who I am and you should to the right people will except you for you.

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