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Leaving my mum alone for Christmas?

My mum and dad split up when I was 3 and I'm now 15, 16 on the 9th of December. All my life i have had Christmas morning with my mum and the afternoon with my dad and then stay with my dad till Boxing Day as I only get to see him every other weekend.

2 years ago I stayed at my dads Christmas Eve night and then stayed until Boxing Day so I didn't see my mum at all and then my brother went to his dads (his dad and my mum have also separated). I felt really bad as my mum was left alone on Christmas Day.

My step mum is now pregnant and is due on the 3rd of December. That means it will be the babies first christmas this year. I've asked my mum if she would let me go to my dad for the hole day and she said shed be fine, and I believe her but I just feel so bad! Do you think I should go? And if so how can I make it special for her so that I feel like I've done something to make her happy?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Well maybe get her a cat or puppy for Christmas to keep her company if she's alone! Or u can spend all christmas eve with her & pretend it's like Christmas wit her, than go to your dads house on christmas day. Idk. Just ideas. But u should go if u want. Just call your mum and check up on her during christmas while ur at ur dads, and see how's she's doing. At lease then she won't feel so abandonned. :) hope it helped & good luck!!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Personally, I'd stay with your Mum this year and go to your Dad's for New Years. Not only will they have a new born but your Mum might feel especially bad at the thought of her ex having a new family.

    The kid will only be a few weeks old and won't know one Christmas from any other day.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Have christmas dinner on the 24th for her. Cook for her. Maybe celebrate christmas on the 23 rd with her.

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