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What happens after you ask a girl out?

So there is this girl at my work who just got out of a bad break up with her bf. She moved out and is now single. I asked her out one day at work and she said yes. Everyday she would call me and text me sayin I'm the cutest and stuff. I hung out with her 2 days in a row but we never kissed. I tried everything to kiss her but for some reason she wants to go slow with me. We are not bf and gf I guess just "talking". I hung with her tonight and she didnt seem interested with me when I hung with her friends. She kept tryin to hook m up with her cousin. When I left she texted me saying that I left her and seemed mad but she said she wasn't. What should I do I'm confused?

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  • Look there is a huge difference between your question and the descreption. Okay so I am assuming that your question was to whether I should date her or not? This should be entirely your opinion because every other guy or girl likes different type of boys and girls.

    According to me she was upset because of her past relationship and in order to get over it she was hanging(date)out with you. And after she felt guilty about this she wanted you to meet her cousin. That's one logical reason.The other is wen you asked her out she might have thought it was just for fun and stuff and that is why now she wants you show that she is not interested so then the cousin thing happened.

    Apart from that if you wanna kiss her then the best way is to take her out for a dance, hold her(gently) while dancing and compliment twice to thrice not more than that. The most important part is as soon as you hold her dont look anywhere else except for her eyes with a small smile. Just keep looking holding and dancing you can also do this at your appartment. After complimenting her for the second time or third make a move...no matter what happens she will definetely kiss you.

    e.g of compliments:- " will you do me favour, please just stop looking so adorable"

    . " you see that pretty girl over there I am going to tell her that she is not as pretty as you are"

    come with different ideas dont use the usual like "your eyes are beautiful" and "you look good today" and "you look good in that dress" try to use words like pretty adorable and stunning 'hot' and 'cute' are old now...

    sorry for making it too lengthy

    Source(s): Experience
  • 8 years ago

    she just got out of a relationship shes not trying to hop into another one. give her some space, dont come on to strong stay friends for awhile.

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