Need to give my bf a great bj?

Cosmopolitan's website has a ton of useful articles ;) You can always ask him what he likes too. My boyfriend and I alternate between oral and vaginal sex to keep things interesting so maybe that's something to consider? I watched some porn for tips too, but cosmo's website was the most useful to me.

P.S. Don't listen to those stupid slut shamers. As long as you two are safe and free of std's you have a right to have fun.

I just googled "How to give great blow jobs" and got approximately 35 million hits---everything from Cosmopolitan Magazine, to videos on YouTube by porn stars, to Guy Speak (www.guyspeak.com).

You will get more comprehensive information on these other sites and more than you will here unless someone wants to write out pages of information for you. So what you will eventually need to do is take all the tricks, and tips, and ideas that you've read about and try them out on your boyfriend. From there, the two of you need to learn together what type of stimulation does work for him and what doesn't work for him. What makes him hot, hot, hot, and what leaves him bored to tears and thinkin' about what he is gonna say the next time he calls his Momma.

So after you have read up on it and watched up on it, some Saturday afternoon when you guys are fooling around, start going down on him and then tell him that you two are going to play a little game. Keep working on him and tell him that there are only two rules: he has to say what does or does not feel good and if the opportunity presents itself, he has to take the time to guide you toward what he likes; the second rule is that this is a "nobody needs to get their feelings hurt zone because we are in a learning session." Tell him you are going to stimulate him in different ways, and he can say things like hotter or colder, or softer or firmer, faster or slower, wetter or drier, and he can use moans and groans, and he can take and grip your hand and assist you if he wants to.

Making the learning together process into a little game of "Hot and Cold" helps you to learn how he loves to be stimulated and allows him to tell you and show you how he likes to be stimulated in a way that is effective, promotes open communication, and where no one feels too bossy or like a failure.

Now its up to you to sex-up this whole little game but it is a good method to use whenever two people are genuinely try to learn what their partner likes, loves, and sends 'em to the moon! have fun learning!

Honestly, you should be married before anything sexual but nobody cares these days.

You a HOE FO'SHO lmao Wow