Did she deserve what I said or was it wrong?

Honestly she did deserve what you said to her because the way she was acting towards you was horrible but for you to be so nice and forgiving was incredibly sweet. It may be hard but like you said there are many other girls out there who like you and that will treat the relationship seriously.

If you have to ask, then you probable know it was mean. At least the part of "for all ik you can be being a little whore right now and being all over those guys."

Saying something twice, and then being sorry twice doesn't sound good. Either you just need to watch what you say more, or you really DO mean it, but then you just feel bad.

BUT...

It sounds like you have some real trust issues there. And maybe your mind is trying to tell you something.

If you can't fix it, then it's best not to be together.

You deserve someone who won't cheat on you.. or make you question her loyalties. The more she hurts you, the less trusting you'll be.. and the more heart broken.

Good luck

Look at what you just wrote and get someone else to read it back to you.

If you heard someone say that they had written songs for their girl, given her everything, taken her back despite she'd cheated, grudgingly let her back in even though they didn't want AND she sent them nasty texts, you would say, dump her ***.

She clearly doesn't respect you at all. She's cheated on you, likely still cheating on you and only came back to you when she knew no one else would take her.

Also, look at your own behavior. She's right, you are far too over protective. Whether they're your girlfriend or not, they should be able to go out with whoever they like, at whatever time they like and be trusted by you. Now I know this girl has cheated which may have caused some trust issues, but seriously, your next partner should not be treated like this. You're her boyfriend, not her father. Stop trying to oppress her.

Also, stop writing the love poems, the songs, and telling her she's too good for you. No one is too good for anyone. You should be equals in a relationship. Stop treating her like God cus she's clearly not a Goddess. She's a *****. And you can do better.

So go find better!!

Not texting you for 11 hours does not mean she is ignoring you. She could have lost, dropped, or broken her phone. I think what you said wasn't as worst as it could have been but it seems you don't trust her and a relationship without a foundation of trust won't last. You should have a serious talk with her and say that you are really sorry for what you said but you can't help not trusting the guys she was around. Then see where it goes from there.

You're Puerto Rican suave and you're begging that cheating, low class whore slut who can't appreciate a good man tramp to act right? You cannot make a whore into a wife, you're too good for her! Man up and represent your Rican flag with pride! Ignore her and find a quality girl before your emotions get stuck on her and you start stalking and crying after her

This sounds like a toxic relationship. She cheats on you and behaves inappropriate for someone in a relationship.

You either accept her ways or just move on and get a girl that doesn't act like her.

Yes what you said was pretty rude. But I bet she would not like it if you went out midnight swimming with 3 other girls.

You need to set some boundaries in your R.S..

I stopped when I seen, I have that something attitude.

Don't blame anything on what you do. .

Your 16, grow the f up mate, if you can't look after a girl now than don't get with anyone.

You called her a whore... of course it was mean!!