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Is it bad to hang out with another girl if theirs already a specific girl I'm talking to ?

I met this girl and been talking to her for about a week now and we both like each other we kiss and hold hands everywhere we go and hangout a lot. We still are not officially in a relationship. Then theirs this other girl who I met a month ago who likes me and wants to hang out, I know I'm still officially single but I think I would feel bad if hang out with this girl. Should I just not hang out with her at all ? Or would would it be okay? I mean I already made up my mind and want to be with the first girl I talked about. Help pls!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    There's no point hanging out with a girl who also has feelings for you ( and just met a month ago) when you already have someone special. You will only cause unnecessary negative feelings between you and the girl you are interested in.

    my boyfriend likes to hang out with the girl who likes him because they have been friends for years. She is over it now but when she was still crushing on him I felt jealousy and depressed, although I did my best to understand because they've been friends for years I still couldn't help but feel that way. Just think how would you feel if your girl hung out with a guy who obviously has a crush on her?

    and it is time for you to make things official with her. What's the point of beating around the bush?

    Source(s): Experience
  • MM
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    If you've made up your mind, then what are you waiting for in terms of making it official? And even if you have good reasons for waiting, why make this girl who likes you think there's hope things could go somewhere when you're not planning on it? Be very, very clear with her that you do not like her back, and even if she says she still wants to be friends and you want to spend time with her on that basis, proceed with caution.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    If you already made up your mind I say don't mess that up and stick to you decision. Although you're still single she may still feel hurt If she found out you were talking to another girl. Even though she knows she shouldn't be mad since you guys aren't dating.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    if you want to be with the first girl you described, I would not hang out with the other girl. as girls, when a guy hangs out with a bunch of other girls, it makes us think he doesn't really care about us.

    Source(s): experience
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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Number one has to go if you are a player and second girl strictly friend only

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