Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and beginning April 20th, 2021 (Eastern Time) the Yahoo Answers website will be in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.
Trending News
Relationship advice? Please help!?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and I really do love him. Its just that I feel like I care about this relationship more than he does. If I put my phone down to wait and see how long it'd take him to contact me, then I'd be waiting for 2 or 3 days. I feel like I'd do anything to make him happy, but he's never putting in that effort for me. Don't get me wrong. For the most part, he's a decent guy and he has done some things for me. But I want to distance myself, start focusing more on me, but I've gotten so used to being at his place all the time that when I'm not there I feel sort of lost. I don't really know what to do anymore. Any advice would be much appreciated! Thanks!
2 Answers
- 8 years ago
I feel you, I've been in similar situations with girls.
What you need to do is go the extra step and just text him less and visit him less, even if it means being at home doing nothing but listening to depressing songs. It sounds tough I know but thats the best way you can do it, you will feel much better in a week tops, and if hes a nice guy like you're saying he WILL give in some extra effort and you will notice, but even if that happens dont be too easy.
Im a guy and I feel like a traitor for telling a girl to do this, but get him a little jealous, dont go making out with other dudes but tell him about your hot neighbor, or the hot dude you saw the other day walking by and how you loved his eyes or something, if hes short tell him you about a tall hot guy and how you wish he could have your babies. That will get him VERY jealous and you should notice change.
Dont be a b*tch tho
Source(s): Im a dude - 8 years ago
These is what I think:
a) or he doesn't care about you, he doesn't love you like you do for him..
b) or if you think that he loves you, you need to depend less on him! and do some TRICKS to make him notice that he needs to behave on another way with you. Don't talk to him a lot, its not fair for you to be the only one who "moves" the relationship, he needs to put more "color" there, because if he doesn't, your relationship is not cool! .So hang out with your friends and do FUN stuff, upload photos or whatever and don't contact to him until he talks to you!
Source(s): ..mexican soup operas hahaha
