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My boyfriend keeps going soft during sex?

I know I'm not unnattractive and this has never happened with any previous partners. This happened starting from the first time we had sex, and now, four months later it continues to happen. He's hard and turned on during foreplay, but it seems five minutes into sex he goes soft, and then he starts getting frustrated. I usually finish him off with oral sex, but I'm starting to wonder if I'm doing something wrong?

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  • Mugen
    Lv 5
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Is he jerking to porn? If so, then that could be the culprit. Too much porn can make his di(k sick! You doing something wrong? I highly doubt that! Guys are very easy to turn on, show some skin and he's up and ready. Show him more, or give him access to your secret chamber and he's excited enough to bust in a few mins or less. The problem is not you! But him and that's why he's so frustrated. I've been there and found out porn was my problem, it may not be the case with him, but only one avenue to look at. No way! Should you blame yourself for this. Guys can have issues when it some to this that has nothing to do with his woman. You try to help find the problem, but there's no way I'd assume it's you. I don't care about his previous partners either, that has nothing to do with you. This may have recently developed with him, or maybe he's lying about his past because it's a bit shameful. I don know! Either way, look outside of yourself for the problem, why would he be with you if he's not attracted to you? Why would he even get hard during foreplay? The fact that he kisses you and gets hard is proof enough that you're not the problem. Kissing is the most intimate act that two people can do together, it's was considered so intimate that even porn starts used to have sex without the kissing. So if a guy gets hard from just kissing a girl, he likes her! Plain and simple.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Most erection problems are mentally related, It might be that your boyfriend feels under pressure to perform and this might have right the opposite effect, i.e. that he goes soft. Make sure you talk lots of time and are both completely relaxed. Turn off the phone and the TV and have a romantic and sexy night in. If he's got an early business meeting the next morning then this will play on his mind too so better to save your night for the weekend. Hope this helps!

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    I doubt you're doing anything wrong he probably just needs a little help from the little blue pill.

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