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HELP?? MY BOYFRIEND RANDOMLY ASKS ME THIS!!?

BEFORE YOU READ THIS: PLEASE DONT HATE OR RESPOND RUDELY.So my boyfriend and i have been dating for a while now, so i know him pretty well. We're an interracial couple(im black, he's white) and we've been doing long distance for a couple months. We're having one of our everyday normal conversations when he randomly asks me if he can tell me something he's never told anyone. I say yes. He then asks me if i'm against bi people. I say no. (I have some bi friends.) He tells me that he's heard of girls fingering their boyfriends and that he'd like to try it.. I completely go speechless. He told me that he's not bi, but me fingering his *** would basically be gay sex!! I have nothing against that but seriously?? I am positive he is not gay. I don't know what to say to him at all!! He told me to text him when i know what to say. (it's gonna be a while.) I don't know what to say to him, and i dont know if this is normal for guys..and i dont know if i should do it!! SOMEONE PLEASEE ANSWER THIS!!! Thanks(: once again: PLEASE NO HATE OR RUDE ANSWERS.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Well, I'm not into it myself, but this isn't actually that abnormal. You don't have to be gay to enjoy having your prostate massaged with a finger. The prostate is a sensitive spot, so rubbing it can feel good to a man. A finger in the butt is not gay sex, it is just anal sex. Some men like it just as some women do. It is simply another pleasure zone. If you are adventurous, you try new things. If you aren't comfortable with it, just let him know, but there isn't anything wrong in trying new things.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    a guys G spot is like in his ***. when we ejaculate it tenses and gives us the pleasure. the same way a girl can enjoy a little anal a guy can too. i dont particularly care for it.. but if it pleases him, and you dont go spreading the word.. why not?

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    no...noo!!its not normal!!!and if you dont know him very well,dump that psycho mothufucka..if you are into white guys never meet them online...thats the first rule in interracial dating with white men,internet is white male dominated with the one who never go out and they jerk wachting videos of fingering and other **** like that...if white guys like you they will aproach you at least thats is what I do,that **** they say about white men scared of aproach blk women is bulshit me or all my friends will aproach any atractive women blk white or purple

  • 8 years ago

    If that's his thing then leave him alone. Don't base your answer on if it makes him gay. Base your answer on if you feel comfortable doing that. Are you ok with putting your finger up there. If it pleases him and your ok with doing that then go for it. Please your man

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Well... is that something you're comfortable with? Cause you could always say no.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Tell him your uncomfortable doing that and buy him a dildo :') :')

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