What can she do legally?

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Back in jan. i had sent texts to my bfs childs mother telling the truth what everyone thought about her including me. The things i told her was she was a home wrecker, she is filthy and she isnt a good parent to her bfs children, i also had some other things that idr . I feel really horrible for what i said to her but everyone agrees that she needed to hear it and she doesnt like me on bit which is understandable. She told me not talk to her or her family (she threw a big hissy fit that i asked her mom how grandkids are) and when we pick up his child from her place  i have to sit in the car which i respect her wishes on that. For the past few months i have been texting her trying to apologize or strike up conversation with her. I feel HORRIBLE for being so mean to her even tho i didnt degrade her i just feel bad for causing drama and hurting her feelings. What i did has caused issues between her and my bf even tho they were already there for instance she is very strict now on where and when he can see his kid. What i did weighs heavily on my mind and the only way i can get past this is if she listens to what i have to say and/ or forgives me. 
My question is since i have been texting her when she has said not to can she file anything through the courts for me to stop? I have not been harrasing her atleast i dont take it that way and i dont say mean things. Today i have been thinking about calling her and leaving a voicemail asking if she wants to meet up soon so i can profess my wrongs to her..

Lone Cat · Accepted Answer

STOP.

Good for you.  You've realized that you did something wrong, and you've tried to correct it.  That's really all anyone can do.  We all make mistakes.  You've done what you can to correct the mistake.  Now it's time to move on.

Nothing good will come from you talking to her.  I understand why you want her forgiveness.  But I don't see that happening.  And I don't think there's anything you can do to make things better between your boyfriend and the mother.  It's more likely that you'll say the wrong thing and make it worse.

My guess is that the mother is the type of person who will take anything you say or do and twist it around to being something bad that she can get angry about.  The best thing you can do is to leave her alone and hope that she'll forget about you.

Poisson Fish · Answer

Nope, it doesn't sound like she can do anything to you in court. The worst thing that could happen is that a judge imposes a restraining order on you, which just means you can't contact her or be within a certain distance of her, but doesn't hurt you in any other way.

It really would be a good idea to try and reconcile with her since you might need to be on good terms with her in the future. Just understand that you were nasty to her and that she might not forgive you.

Good luck!

Landlord · Answer

She can file harassment chargers.    She has told you to stop contacting her, and you have refused.

Since you are not related in any way to her child she may be able to get a restraining order ordering no contact with her or her child.

Beverly S · Answer

LOL!!  You didn't "degrade" her????  Calling her filthy & a home wrecker isn't degrading.  Yes she can get you for harassment.  She quite obviously wants NOTHING to do with you.  Don't call her.

garrytoo · Answer

Probably not but watch your back. If you draw wrath she might sneak up and beat or kill you.

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