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Just b/c 2 ppl love eachotha dont mean that they meant 2 be togetr PLEASE help?
Im 20 & My boyfriend is 22 he have no money no car no job no nothing but yeah I stayed with him for the past 3 years he's mentally abusive emotionally abuses the not physically sometimes I feel like I've had enough and that I don't need him but he claim he miss me , and that he loves me, its like my mind stopped working but my heart didnt and I'm real nonchalant with him , i love him todath but i cant keep puttingup with his bullshit, the drinking, the smoking , hes controlling if I want to go somewhere I have to tell him where I'm going I have the ask him if itts okay to go , but I'm not allowed to question him advice please I need help
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- Rachel RLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
The warning signs in this relationship are blaring out.
I agree with the title of your question - just because two people love each other, doesn't mean they have to be together. You need to take a serious decision as to whether or not you want to stay with him or not. My advice is to leave especially considering that is he abusive towards you. Leaving abusive relationships is never easy but it's the right choice to do. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family and have a clean exit strategy for this relationship.
I'm uncomfortable with controlling boyfriends. The idea that he is manipulating you is a warning sign. Please leave this relationship as soon as possible. Wish you all the best.