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Why do I suddenly want to break up with my boyfriend of two years ?
Ok so I do care about him and I love him but I don't think I am in love with him!
He left to go see him mother in Germany 4 weeks ago!
And I am planning on going to go see him! I have my flights booked and I leave in 3 days!
But today! I realised that I don't want to see him! Obviously I am going to Germany because everything has been booked and I cannot get my money back for my flights plus I have not had a holiday in 7 years!
Why am I suddenly wanting to break up with him? Is it because I finally realise that I can live my life without him? I have had loads of fun with friends while he has been away!
4 Answers
- Chris SellickLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
Its possible that you are losing your feelings for him,possibly.If you are able to enjoy your life without him I think you might find that when you see him again you'll either confirm how you are feeling for him or confirm that you are losing feelings for him.Its just a shame that you realised this so late in your travel plans as you could have rearranged your booking to going to holiday destination of your own choosing.Its a good thing you realised how you feel now as opposed to a few years later.In the meantime it will give you a chance to re -evaluate your relationship and how you feel about him.If you're not happy in this relationship you should figure out what you want.
- 8 years ago
That's kind of sad.. seems like your love for him has died out.
And it's hard to get back unless he reminds you of all the great things you guys did together and you remember how much you love him then you'll want him back..
I think it's sweet when a guy goes to visit his mother <3 I want a guy who respects his mother, and you're leaving a guy who has respect for his mother?
It's sad, but really your decision (there can be other reasons..such as... you don't find him attractive/seen other guys who are better/feelings have faded/forgotten) other stuff.
Don't be too hard on yourself..but really do think this out. You don't want to obviously just randomly break up with him.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH BENNN!
There are some times you just get tired of the same old routine!
Good luck on your decision.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I'll be honest. Of COURSE its fun to be away from your BF/GF for a few days or weeks. That ALWAYS happens. ITS A FUN CHANGE from your routine. But that doesnt mean you should totally break up with them!! If you want to spend more time with friends? Sure, do so!
IT IS POSSIBLE TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH FRIENDS, WITHOUT DUMPING YOUR BOYFRIEND. HURRR DURRR.
The problem is, if you dump him completely, then you will wake up one day and be like "....sh*t. I REALLY miss him, and now hes dating that hot girl down the street." and you will be SOL. Girls like to think they can just *snap their fingers* and get an ex boyfriend back. Nope, doesnt work like that. People move on.
I recommend staying with him. If you enjoy your time with friends, then do so! Spend more time with friends! It doesnt mean you need to dump him, become a huge c*m guzzling wh*re, and sleep with guys from bars and clubs! Go out and have fun with friends, then come home to your boyfriend like most classy women with self respect do.
Also, rule of thumb:
If you are experiencing an "emotion" but don't have logical, factual, good reasons to back it up...
Then you are probably just being emotional/hormonal and need to NOT act on those feelings of yours. Only act on feelings if 1) Its a life or death situation, or 2) those feelings have logic and reason behind them
Source(s): Not trying to be harsh or anything, BUT NOT ALL FEELINGS ARE RIGHT. You know what I mean? The BIBLE ITSELF (idk if you believe in it or not, but its definitely a wise book) says "THE HEART IS DECEITFULLY WICKED..." The reason for that saying is, the HEART makes you feel EMOTIONS that are often WRONG. You should never act on FEELINGS, only act on FACTS. Know what I mean? You're a smart girl I believe you will do the right thing and stay with him A common example is, a guy might see a really hot girl and think "oh shes hot! she must be a super nice girl with a great personality!" then he sees an ugly fat girl and thinks "ew she must be a huge b*tch!". Is the hot girl really any nicer of a person? Maybe, maybe not, but her LOOKS HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. Yet our EMOTIONS LIE TO US and tell us that hot people must be good people, and ugly people are bad people. Again... emotions are deceptive.
