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I like a girl who talks to her ex bf? Help!?

So I like this chick who just moved out of her bf house. She was with him for 4 years and all she does is complain about him. I hung out with her everyday at her new house with her sisters for about 2 weeks straights goin on the 3rd. I hooked up with twice no sex or nothing but made out and fingered. Now he bf called her the other night flipping out asking who she has been with and texted because she is under his family plan still. So she can't text me besides using her sisters phone. I just heard today that she had lunch with her ex even tho she complain about him to me. I'm kinda stuck on the situation should I let her go or keep trying. I'm leaving for the marines in 6 months so I'm looking for a gf till then. I already asked her a while back she said lets hang out more. Advice please?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Take my advice and leave her.

    Even though she likes you, and she might like you a lot, 4 years is a long time with someone..especially if they just broke up.

    Dont expect someone who just left a 4 year relationship to get over their ex for at least 6 months (and a lot of casual flings in between)

    If you're looking for a girlfriend to treat you like the best thing that ever happened to her, she wont be the one until she gets over her ex...but judging by the fact they had lunch together, and she cant text u from her phone then shes 100% still on good terms with her ex and will be for a few months

    Source(s): Dated many girls who were not over their ex
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    if u ar not serious, ten why u want her to be serious too??? u just go on with the situation and let the time decides what should me done next.. dun be over hoping.. it might hurt u... ok?

  • 8 years ago

    If she's still spending so much time complaining about him and she's still seeing him, then she's clearly not over him.

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