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Ever since I started dating my boyfriend my "best" friend has been very jealous. But lately my boyfriend will text my "best" friend and ask her to hang out ( with both of us or if he is in the area where she lives. She lives nears bars). I was out of town this weekend and he told me that they went out to breakfast. I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust my "best" friend because she has stabbed me in the back when it comes to guys. I don't think he would do anything with her. I don't know if he just feels bad for her because I really want nothing to do with her or if he is just trying to be nice to her because she is a "friend"
5 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
One question though, why are you still acquainted with your 'best' friend? If you feel strongly that her relationship with you is not surreal, then you should bravely consult her and tell her that either she has to change or you will not give her a second chance.
If your boyfriend actually falls under her spell as you claim, then he is not deserving of you.
best of luck.
- 8 years ago
To be honest with you, no one should ever put anyone in this situation. It's not about jealousy or trust, it's about respect. No one can fully trust another person, even in relationships, just for the fact that people do change. I love my girlfriend but I wouldnt feel to comfortable with her spending time with one of my guy friends without me being present. Its just disrespectful and uncomfortable all the way around. If he loves you then he would understand about how you feel. Don't let him throw out that you don't trust him so you don't love him nonsense because that ignorance is garbage. He should understand how you feel because I'm sure he would feel uncomfortable if you hung out with one of his buddies without him. Again it's just respect. If he can't give that to you, then find someone who can. It's not worth being in a relationship with someone who doesn't respect how you feel and for you to always be wondering what he's doing with other women. Be strong and confident and if he refuses to stop seeing her privately, I would stop seeing him.
- Anonymous8 years ago
I think your just stupid for letting him. Something's going on, your "friend" might be jealous of u and is trying to get your boyfriend to cheat on u with her. But in your situation I think your boyfriend hust knows how to make a girl trust him wen he really is a player. Sorry to break the ice! :)
- Anonymous8 years ago
Let him know you dont feel comfertable with it ! Comunicate good
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- 8 years ago
woah..that is totally not bestfriend at all. i would total be concern if she around with my bf . just tell your bf to back away from her . just tell him that you are not comfortable with her around him , im sure your bf would understand.
