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Best friend always gets the guys..?

Okay, so im not hating on my bff, i absolutely love her she's the best. But whenever we go out, she always gets the guys. I live in a mostly white neighborhood, and im mixed. (black, white, irish and german). She is white, with shoulder length blonde hair and blue eyes. I know a lot of white guys dont really feel attracted to black/mixed girls and its not like i can move to an area where guys do. But i would think at least one would! It makes me kinda upset because I think i'll never get a boyfriend. Like tonight we hung out and met some guys, and we texted them, but he seems more attracted to her. I'm just really upset right now and i probably sound stupid. Anyone have any advice?? And am i just really ugly? Is that the problem?? (i also like to have fun, and my friend is a huge flirt.)

Some pics of me:

http://images.skout.com/a6a614ed1310ad63c330ad2b5a...

http://images.skout.com/cd52f3fa6fa7f21cbef566030b...

http://images.skout.com/6764fbd6b6434dc103a4607747...

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http://images.skout.com/9346bc1b67b1beaba7719c139e...

http://images.skout.com/ad310a222f82aabe789a344240...

http://images.skout.com/8299cafb959ff4a8bad69169d9...

Thanks!!(:

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  • Jess
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    White guys like attractive girls and like most guys of any race they will not hesitate to date an attractive girl regardless of race (assuming they are not racist). I personally think way to many black women like to blame race as a reason for their short comings when reality is its because they are unattractive. most attractive black women and mixed women have no problem dating white men if they are into white men. If you are at least attractive the issue may be your personality that is causing these men to go to your friend. Also your fiend might very well be more attractive then you and her race has nothing to do with it. I am black and u get more attention from white men then my white friend who mainly attracts black guys. So its not race but attraction. Get some self esteem and stop blaming it on your race. Get less attractive looking friends, flirt like crazy and be a good person. There is a guy out there for everyone.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You have a nice face and body. The long hair is definitely a positive. All you need to do is something with your eyes like eye shadow or eye liner or something. You can ask in the makeup section how to make your eyes more noticeable. Or go to a salon and ask the makeup artist how to touch up your eyes. I think that's the one piece of the puzzle that will make the difference.

    Flirting comes with practice. There are 1,000 youtube videos you can watch for flirting tips.

  • 8 years ago

    You know whats the problem? Its about you, Hey! you don't need a bunch of guys to be attracted to you to say that you're beautiful. what is the importance of being beautiful if they can't appreciate you, the reason why a bunch of guys is attracted to someone is because they all want sex. Hey, You just need to realize that you're beautiful and I know that there would be a man that will respect you for who you are.

  • 8 years ago

    Tbh ur not ugly so dont feel down. I understand, my bff is beautiful. N whenevr I hangout with her I do feel at times guys chk her out more then me. Shes natural beauty n a hotter body then me, but its ok I am confident with myself, our beauties r different!

    Source(s): Btw I have bf n she has one too.
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