Talked to this woman all week hours upon hours, first date was tonite, we met online, we swapped pics, etc..?

Difficult to say.

My gut instinct is that she is telling the truth, and that she feels she /has/ to go because of the kids, not necessarily because of him. But I'll tell you this much. If she really had to leave, she will be extra 100% more considerate toward you once she gets back.

A divorced woman with a bunch of children gets very few chances to start again with anyone decent. And if you are decent, and patient, I think she will work extra hard to prove to you that she can be a good companion. That is, if you can understand that she has priorities, like that of her children, that she has to attend to.

And part of the way she determines if it'll work with you is to see how you react in a crisis like this. Which makes me feel like, perhaps, she is looking at this as a kind of "test" for you. Are you going to get angry? Jealous? Sullen? If you are towards her, she doesn't need you.

That's the only reason why I think she would lie...to see how you would react. And sadly, if you are saying now that you want nothing more to do with her, you are reacting in a way that tells her that you cannot be a good partner for her or stepfather for her children. Which may be for the best, for you and for her.

But if you choose to be patient, she will--I'm sure--be /extremely/ grateful to you and will work extra hard to make it up to you. She probably feels that anybody who could forgive her for something like that is A1 Class in her book.

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I think you should move on if she lied you can't trust her if not then she will be dropping everything to be by her exs hospital bedside instead of with you so I think if you went any further with her you'd be leading yourself down the road of disappointment.