help ! get me in contact with people that are smart about the big bang an black holes?

Perhaps you could start with what is known, before you push new ideas.

For insights about the Big Bang and its implications, watch the video at the 1st link - "A Universe From Nothing" by theoretical physicist Lawrence Krauss, read an interview with him (at the 2nd link), or get his new book (at the 3rd link). See the 4th link for "The Universe: Big Bang to Now in 10 Easy Steps." And, see the 5th link for "Quantum scientists make something out of nothing."

"The total energy of the universe is precisely zero, because gravity can have negative energy. The negative energy of gravity balances out the positive energy of matter. Only such a universe can begin from nothing. The laws of physics allow a universe to begin from nothing. You don't need a deity. Quantum fluctuations can produce a universe."

- Lawrence Krauss, physicist

"The cosmic microwave background radiation is one of the many reasons that we know that the Big Bang actually happened."

- Lawrence Krauss, physicist

So you've figured out new angles on some of the Universe's biggest mysteries which will go down in history (thus winning you a Nobel Prize in the process, no doubt), yet you're completely stymied on figuring out who to talk to about it on your own?

Something tells me not to get my hopes up....

Try talking to your local science teacher in your local school first,or talk to the physics professor at your local university. You may need to get some qualifications in science and physics before anyone will even think about taking your idea seriously.

Speaking of Big Bang and Black Holes... I picked up this South African chick last Saturday night... (giggity giggity)

facebook can help you. there are many fb groups of physics specially cosmology. you can find them.