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If you're trans, when are you gay?

I know gender identity and sexual preference are independant.

Semantically, do you say, eg., that a trans male (girl turned man) is gay if he likes men, or straight because he was born female?

Guessing it's probably the first.

Update:

@Kels I did say independant, read properly.

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  • 8 years ago
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    If a FtM transgender or transsexual is sexually attracted to men, then he is gay. The gender is what's important in deciding sexuality, unless a person chooses to label their own sexuality based on sex for whatever reason.

    @Kels - no-one said anything about porn, and the first sentence is most definitely correct.

    @Clones - I believe the asker was referring to sex when they said "girl turned man", not gender.

    The asker was also using "when" in terms of "under which circumstances", not "during what times".

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Semantically I must point out that a girl can't turn man, and that a trans male always had a male brain but appeared to be a girl at birth.

    But you guess correctly. I'm a bisexual trans female and my attraction to women is a gay one while my attraction to men is a straight one. I guess what I feel toward genderqueer people is just plain old attraction.

    I never could start a relationship back when I was role playing as a guy. It was just way too fake.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Sexuality ( gay,straight etc ) in society is seen as based on your gender. So if you identify as a guy and you like guys, you're gay. So if a trans guy likes guys, he is considered gay.

    Source(s): me being a gay transguy
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    If a trans man likes only men he is gay since he is a man.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    men who like men are straight

    a trans man is a man and if he like men that makle him gay

    if he were to like womyn he would be straight then

    if he liked both he would be bi there are trans* with all orientations

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Neither assumption is correct, and porn certainly won't prove so.

    There is no correlation between being gay and feeling your identity is your opposite gender. You use a might big word "IF" which suggests you need to do more research on the why of all of it.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    An ftm would be gay if he liked men yes

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