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I don't want to hangout with another couple but my girlfriend does, what to do ?

My girlfriend and i hung out with this other couple , which the girl is her best friend but i found it kinda boring and not special with another couple is around especially it being her best friend. Point is i did not like hanging out with my girlfriend and another couple. It takes away the whole romantic vibe when her friend is around and she wants to go tubing today with this couple. am i wrong for feeling like this? or should i just say i dont want to hang out ? Help!

Update:

Its just not the same hanging out when its just the two of us. Because its more special and romantic. We have only been dating for a month maybe am not ready to hang out with other couples. I feel like only me and her should be hanging out.

Update 2:

This girl is her best friend but i guess she doesn't realize that just because shes her best friend doesn't mean shes my best friend and im automatically going to like it. because that's what it seems like it. Makes sense ??

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  • 8 years ago
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    If you two still have dates with just the two of you, sometimes you just have to do things you don't love. If it makes it any easier, try getting to know her best friend's boyfriend so that you can talk about guy things with him while she talks to her friend, so you won't be completely bored. Sure, it won't be the most romantic date in the world, but you could have some fun during it. Also, let your girlfriend know that you don't like double dates that much since you can't be as romantic as you want to. She might schedule fewer of those so you two can have more alone time. I hope this helps!

  • 8 years ago

    You should be able to hang with other people sometimes, but of course you're not wrong to want private time with your girlfriend sometimes.

    My conclusion is that if you spend little time only the two of you, you are right to think so. If you do spend a lot of time alone together she's right to want to do things with other people too

  • 8 years ago

    As long as you two still get some alone time, I think you need to suck it up and occasionally hang out with her friends too.

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