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I dont know what to do?

Okay so I have a girlfriend and we have come to love eachother very much and it has been almost 9 months and we do absolutely everything together and we are always there for eachother and no matter what we always make things work. But its now the end of the season for my 4th year at this campground where I have become really close friends with this girl who I secretly used to like. She usually hangs out with my sister but my sister wasn't at camp this weekend, so she had more of a chance to get closer with me and hangout more. But as we continued to hangout more and more she then starte to show signs that she liked me. I also admit, I started to contemplate liking her again but all I could think of was how upset my girlfriend would be and I began to feel really bad. So today, the girl from camp admitted that she thought I was really cute and that she sort of likes me, but I have a girlfriend so she is forced to like me as just a friend. Im really not sure what to think right now. Should I tell this to my girlfriend, or pretend like this weekend never happened, because I am thinking a lot about this girl from camp... and I don't know why;(

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    I think you should tell your girlfriend what's happening so she doesn't feel lied to later on if this other girl does try something on you. Honesty is a big factor in how long relationships last. Sooner or later you're going to have to fess up about what's going on inside your head and heart. It's not good to lead either one on in this situation! :) I hope you'll do what feels right to you.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Like Julie said, communication is key in a relationship. If you sit down with your girlfriend and word it correctly, she'll understand for sure! It would be an issue if something happened with the girl from camp. If you tell your girlfriend about everything at least no one will be hurt, right?

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