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I'm 17, how can I feel better about this 1 year break up?

I broke up with my boyfriend of a year for good. I am 17 turning 18 in December, he is a few years older then I. a few days ago I found him logged into a dating site, and found he had an unread message. He was on this site before...(I snooped a little this time) and found him messaging more then 5 other girls. He usually said "hey beautiful" and one girl he had a conversation with, basically trying to get to know her and saying shes his kind of girl. I didn't do anything to deserve this. I know it's the right thing to do to just move on from him. But I had true feelings for him and he thinks what he did wasn't bad and I should stay. Please help me. I start my senior year of high school in less then 2 days and I want to be optimistic and happy :(

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  • 8 years ago

    maybe her didn't actually cheat on you, but he was dishonest with you and and was talking to other girls behind your back. You seem like a smart girl and you're young. Be open to dating guys who will treat you the way you ought to be treated, don't be hung up on this loser. I know it's hard to turn away from intense feelings but it will make you stronger, and in the long run, happier too.

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