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My husband accused me of taking some money he had saved up. I did not. He still thinks I took it. Now what?
for the first two years of our marriage, he says he was waiting for me to admit it!!!!! So that means he has been thinking I am a thief for all this time. How can I go back to a normal life with him when he still thinks I took his money?? I feel cheated. What happened to him. He should know That I wouldn't do that. How can I get past this? Or can I get past this?
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- marys.mommaLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
By this time, your daily behavior should have lived down any grounds for suspicion he's had.
You could initiate a candid discussion, asking him what made him think you helped yourself to the money he had saved. Did you buy anything unusually expensive? Were you the only possible person who had access to your home? Did he move the money somewhere else, himself?
Maybe he's holding on to his suspicions because he sees that he has you intimidated. Are you afraid to confront him about anything important, for fear he'll bring up those old accusations?
It's probably past time to settle this once and for all. Tell him, firmly, that you never took any money without his permission. Insist that he accept that it was either taken by someone else, or has been lost somewhere in the house. Demand a genuine apology. And be prepared to walk out (at least for a good while) if he persists in his delusion.